Another wonderful thing about Catholics

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When my young adult son passed away unexpectedly last summer, a Catholic chaplain (sent by the local police department) was the first one to arrive at our house to provide spiritual care. I cannot tell you how much that meant to us. That priest was the only one of the 3 pastors who arrived that day (the other two were Lutheran) who prayed for my son’s soul and told me I could do the same. In the weeks that followed I asked every Catholic friend I knew to pray for my son’s soul, and they have. And I have. I could not have asked my Protestant friends to do that. This experience, along with many others, has served to bring me to the doorstep of the Catholic Church today.
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son.

I lost my younger brother when he was 21 and I know how devastating that was for my parents, especially the way he died (he took his own life).

I’m very happy that the Catholic chaplain prayed for your son for you. I know how important prayers are.

God bless you and your son and the rest of your family!
 
I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son.

I lost my younger brother when he was 21 and I know how devastating that was for my parents, especially the way he died (he took his own life).

I’m very happy that the Catholic chaplain prayed for your son for you. I know how important prayers are.

God bless you and your son and the rest of your family!
Matthew, thank you. Our son took his own life as well. It’s a very hard thing to deal with, for parents as well as siblings. His older brother has taken it very hard. We pray for God’s continued peace and comfort for ourselves and for you and your family also.
 
That is a heartwarming story. May God hold your son’s soul in his eternal care and may you find many blessings as you continue in your faith journey.
Thank you, Pastor Gary, those are very kind words. God bless you as well.
 
May the Holy Spirit continue to guide you on you’re journey home. Welcome

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Thank you, Jesus - I have met so many wonderful Catholic people on these forums and have been very encouraged as a result. I am also learning a lot! It is a true blessing. 🙂
 
Matthew, thank you. Our son took his own life as well. It’s a very hard thing to deal with, for parents as well as siblings. His older brother has taken it very hard. We pray for God’s continued peace and comfort for ourselves and for you and your family also.
Noor means light, correct? It is a beautiful name.

I can also recommend this forum for people who have lost friends and family to suicide:

forum.forsuicidesurvivors.com/

It has been 18 years since we lost Jordan. I now do volunteer work for suicide prevention, which helps a lot too ( although it took me many years until I was ready for that).

You are all of course in my prayers as well.
 
Noor means light, correct? It is a beautiful name.

I can also recommend this forum for people who have lost friends and family to suicide:

forum.forsuicidesurvivors.com/

It has been 18 years since we lost Jordan. I now do volunteer work for suicide prevention, which helps a lot too ( although it took me many years until I was ready for that).

You are all of course in my prayers as well.
Yes, an Arabic name. My husband is from Syria. Thank you for sharing your story; it helps a lot to talk with others who have been through a similar situation. I will check out that website.
 
Yes, an Arabic name. My husband is from Syria. Thank you for sharing your story; it helps a lot to talk with others who have been through a similar situation. I will check out that website.
I lost a child called Noor 🙂

God bless you Betsy. With all the love in my heart I pray for the two Noor’s in heaven 🙂

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My wife is Jordanian…we lost Noor 4 months before birth.
We also lost another one 5 months before birth.

We have since buried both their bodies in the local cemetery and my wife to this day struggles when we visit them.

It indeed is hard, but I believe physical death is in no way the end and we will be reunited with them again.

If you wish I am happy to recount a dream my wife had about Noor, which simply astounded me and confirmed my faith in God 🙂
 
My wife is Jordanian…we lost Noor 4 months before birth.
We also lost another one 5 months before birth.

We have since buried both their bodies in the local cemetery and my wife to this day struggles when we visit them.

It indeed is hard, but I believe physical death is in no way the end and we will be reunited with them again.

If you wish I am happy to recount a dream my wife had about Noor, which simply astounded me and confirmed my faith in God 🙂
I am very sorry for both of your losses. It is terribly hard to lose a child. I would love to hear about your wife’s dream, and I know my husband would as well. My husband, myself, and our oldest son had very similar dreams about our Noor several months ago that could only have been from a loving God. In each of the dreams we saw Noor and he was content (although not yet completed, for lack of a better term). All of the dreams ended in the exact same way, with him giving each of us a hug that felt as real as if he had been standing in the room with us. I know that God is so much bigger and greater than any of us can possibly imagine.
 
I am very sorry for both of your losses. It is terribly hard to lose a child. I would love to hear about your wife’s dream, and I know my husband would as well. My husband, myself, and our oldest son had very similar dreams about our Noor several months ago that could only have been from a loving God. In each of the dreams we saw Noor and he was content (although not yet completed, for lack of a better term). All of the dreams ended in the exact same way, with him giving each of us a hug that felt as real as if he had been standing in the room with us. I know that God is so much bigger and greater than any of us can possibly imagine.
Thank you for this story and yes your observations are correct. We can pray for the departed as they can pray for us.

God Bless you and your Loss!

I also lost a Brother to Suicide.

Regards Tony
 
When my young adult son passed away unexpectedly last summer, a Catholic chaplain (sent by the local police department) was the first one to arrive at our house to provide spiritual care. I cannot tell you how much that meant to us. That priest was the only one of the 3 pastors who arrived that day (the other two were Lutheran) who prayed for my son’s soul and told me I could do the same. In the weeks that followed I asked every Catholic friend I knew to pray for my son’s soul, and they have. And I have. I could not have asked my Protestant friends to do that. This experience, along with many others, has served to bring me to the doorstep of the Catholic Church today.
God Bless You and we will continure to Pray for him and you and family. I will include you all in my daily Mass. God Bless, Memaw
 
When my young adult son passed away unexpectedly last summer, a Catholic chaplain (sent by the local police department) was the first one to arrive at our house to provide spiritual care. I cannot tell you how much that meant to us. That priest was the only one of the 3 pastors who arrived that day (the other two were Lutheran) who prayed for my son’s soul and told me I could do the same. In the weeks that followed I asked every Catholic friend I knew to pray for my son’s soul, and they have. And I have. I could not have asked my Protestant friends to do that. This experience, along with many others, has served to bring me to the doorstep of the Catholic Church today.
Betsy,
I pray that God hold your son in His loving merciful arms, and comfort you with the knowledge that He does.

Jon
 
I am very sorry for both of your losses. It is terribly hard to lose a child. I would love to hear about your wife’s dream, and I know my husband would as well. My husband, myself, and our oldest son had very similar dreams about our Noor several months ago that could only have been from a loving God. In each of the dreams we saw Noor and he was content (although not yet completed, for lack of a better term). All of the dreams ended in the exact same way, with him giving each of us a hug that felt as real as if he had been standing in the room with us. I know that God is so much bigger and greater than any of us can possibly imagine.
It would be a pleasure to share the dream Betsy 🙂

This dream occurred about 6 months after we buried Noor.

It goes as follows:

My wife was attending a gathering and as she entered she was drawn instantly to a beautiful girl, brushing her long black hair and with the most radiant glow upon her person. It was instantly atracting for my wife.

My wife suddenly came to a realisation and asked “Noor, is that you darling girl?”

“Yes mummy its me, I love you”

“I love you too angel girl, but you have grown up so quickly, look at your hair…”

“Yes mummy, there is no time where we are here. We can be any age we like, and we are all one…”

At that moment my wife awoke with profound thoughts which she shared with me when she woke me up. We both sat up and prayed in the middle of the night for Noor’s soul and we know she will always be with us. We do not die when we physically die, death is actually more alive than when we are alive here…in this world…

My son, Jamal, to this day, does not, during his morning and evening prayers, ever forget to invoke Noor and Georgina’s (long story about that name 🙂 ) name during his daily prayers.

I really believe that with each generation, with correct education, the faith and certitude in God’s unabounding grace increases. Jamal often teaches us, even at the age of 11, what faith truly means…

I pray this may assist you and your dear husband in finding peace and solitude in such a sensitive and touching matter 🙂

God bless you dear sister 🙂

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It would be a pleasure to share the dream Betsy 🙂

This dream occurred about 6 months after we buried Noor.

It goes as follows:

My wife was attending a gathering and as she entered she was drawn instantly to a beautiful girl, brushing her long black hair and with the most radiant glow upon her person. It was instantly atracting for my wife.

My wife suddenly came to a realisation and asked “Noor, is that you darling girl?”

“Yes mummy its me, I love you”

“I love you too angel girl, but you have grown up so quickly, look at your hair…”

“Yes mummy, there is no time where we are here. We can be any age we like, and we are all one…”

At that moment my wife awoke with profound thoughts which she shared with me when she woke me up. We both sat up and prayed in the middle of the night for Noor’s soul and we know she will always be with us. We do not die when we physically die, death is actually more alive than when we are alive here…in this world…

My son, Jamal, to this day, does not, during his morning and evening prayers, ever forget to invoke Noor and Georgina’s (long story about that name 🙂 ) name during his daily prayers.

I really believe that with each generation, with correct education, the faith and certitude in God’s unabounding grace increases. Jamal often teaches us, even at the age of 11, what faith truly means…

I pray this may assist you and your dear husband in finding peace and solitude in such a sensitive and touching matter 🙂

God bless you dear sister 🙂
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Simply awesome thanks for sharing.👍👍👍
God bless
 
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