Anti-Catholic friend

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Hello, I have already had the privilege of talking to Mr. Staples (you know him as Mr. Tim Staples about this). Anyway, I have a friend. (Kind of), at one point she and I were very close, I don’t want to go into too much detail (for her privacy and mine), but she ended up getting married to a guy I did not exactly get along with. Now, he has died, he died almost two years ago. This girl is a “former” Catholic and is much the reason I became Catholic. She wanted to be Confirmed, and she seemed to seriously be convinced Catholicism was true (she was Baptized as a child, but never really practiced). Eventually, she decided she did not wish to be Catholic, and was Baptized the third time (Ironically, she told me the second one, which was a believer’s baptism, was not her choice) a few years ago. Now, I tried to reconcile with her over some of the mean things her husband and I have said to each other (and did for a while), but I am not really sure where this anti-Catholic attitude comes from. I have had Catholic Apologists more seasoned than I debate her, but it seems to be to no avail. The types of things she says, like that the Pope is the Anti-Christ, and that the Catholic Church is the whore of Babylon, I can easily refute, but nothing seems to get through to her. I would also like to point out she seems to have an unhealthy obsession with Kirk Cameron and his Growing Pains ministry, as well as that of Ray Comfort (whom I have actually debated via Facebook after he posted something completely false about Pope Francis. And I called him out on it). Any and all help would be appreciated. Thanks
-Adam
I have a friend who’s the same way. You show the truth and they refuse. It’s like they have a spell cast on them. I would focus more on growing relationships with less fringe Protestants who view us as fellow Christians.
 
I have a friend who’s the same way. You show the truth and they refuse. It’s like they have a spell cast on them. I would focus more on growing relationships with less fringe Protestants who view us as fellow Christians.
Although I don’t talk to her so much anymore, I actually have a Southern Baptist friend who considers me very much a fellow Christian. She has even asked ME questions about what the Bible says!
 
It sounds like your other friend does not have her spiritual life figured out yet and isn’t mature enough to want to mature in the Catholic faith or perhaps any other faith.
 
It seems to me that you have invested a lot of time and thought into this lady’s spiritual life. It shouldn’t be a source of frustration for you. I would suggest taking a break from it and focus your energy on something else. I actually worry that you may have an emotional attachment to her that is hard to let go. Pray for her, do not miss Mass. Praying for your intentions.
 
It seems to me that you have invested a lot of time and thought into this lady’s spiritual life. It shouldn’t be a source of frustration for you. I would suggest taking a break from it and focus your energy on something else. I actually worry that you may have an emotional attachment to her that is hard to let go. Pray for her, do not miss Mass. Praying for your intentions.
I do, and she knows it, which may be the problem. And unless I am sick I never miss Mass if I can help it 🙂
 
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