The last nine months for my family have been extreme stressful. My dad became very ill and spent months in the hospital. My daughter has been faced with some challenging decisions. My mom has been my dad’s primary caregiver and is very exhausted so I am worried about her.
All of this has taken a toll me. I find it hard to concentrate, my mind races constantly with what if thoughts and I blame myself a lot for everything going on,
I ask for your prayers for mental peace, the ability to concentrate and work. I also pray for my mom, dad and daughter, that our live may soon return to normal.
Thank you,
First of all, take a deep breath, and let it out sloooowly. Do this three times.
Next, thank God for giving you the crosses He has. Seriously. Thank Him. It is a gift. Without suffering, there is no wisdom. Wisdom is a gift, which we need to be able to serve God better and help build His Kingdom.
Third, when we want to grow our muscles, we must exercise our muscles. There is a principle at work, whereby when we exhaust a muscle, tiny tears take place in the muscle. When we rest it thereafter, it begins to heal, and builds more muscle tissue than was there before. This is how we grow muscle. The same thing happens in the spiritual life with our faith. Unless it is exercised and exhausted, it cannot grow. So, we should be grateful for the opportunities God gives us to grow our faith through suffering.
Finally, know that God is simultaneously in the past, present, and future. He does not “foresee” the future as you and I might like to do, but He “sees” the future like you and I see the present moment. He sees everything that will ever happen to you, and allows it, for your better good. Many people ask, “Why does God allow evil?” We Catholics have the answer to that question! It’s a theological no-brainer! God allows evil so that a greater good may be drawn from it. Perfect case? Look at a crucifix. Jesus, Who is God, was crucified on a cross by mere men. Deicide. Killing of God. No greater evil. Yet, from that, we have a chance now at eternal salvation. The greatest good!
So, be at peace. Fear not. Trust God in all things. And thank Him for the gift of life, and for all the crosses in your life. It is for your own good!
God bless!
