Any advice for my second sister?

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Its a long story but here goes, my sister used to be good but she’s a type of person need to be fully loved, if not she will think you don’t want her, is like if my mum talks to my elder sister, then my this second sister will get jealous…

I have 2 sistar, both of them don’t get along well… since long time ago they keep saying face to each other and hate each other, i don’t know what’s wrong with them either… but recently, my second sister became lunatic, psycho you know?.. She fought with my family during Sunday and she yesterday ran away from home…

Well the story goes like this, my mom told her not to drive fast on the road because it’s dangerous right? then she fought with my mom like that. As for my aunty, they fought my mom told my sister about don’t waste her money going to salon to wash hair many times a week because it’s waste money for her, she’s a college student only you know? this is what my aunty told to my mom then that time my mom told to my sister, that’s how she fought with my sister.

So, my second sister is a person who likes to play Twitter and Facebook… You know what she did? i purposely to stole to look at her Twitter. She posted all about our family problem you know?! she even told fully detailed to her friends! Not only this problem, she even told the last time past ago problem. My mom was like so angry because she’s telling our family affair to her friends!? and you know she called my Mom, Aunty, Elder Sistar btch on twitter? btch, id*iot and devil… all these type of words!..

Recently started from Sunday she started sending nasty sms to my Aunty ! THEN, yesterday she even sms my aunty and sister again after she ran away from home! my aunty forward the msg to me, example of the message was like " god is watching you, god not forgive you, devil of the family, you abused my grandma mentally? ( the message was much worse, i just shorten in )… oh yea, all these thing also she posted on Twitter… i mean seriously?! how can she say my aunty abused my grandma mentally? how can she say all these kind of thing to my aunty? my aunty even move her in to her home when she fought with my mother last time, feed her, care for her and my second sister even scold her in the sms " you did nothing for the family, you ruined the family, you just want me and mommy to fight " and so onn…

All these happaned, my mom got angry and on sunday night, my mom scold her like mad. throw her phone to the floor and took all her ipad, laptop to keep it… and she cried and say she did not do anything wrong? i was like wtf ?! and she even want to kill herself ( she wanted to take the knife )… just because of taking her thing away? is she mad?.. but she still have her iphone… mom didnt take it yet… but you see yesterday i looked into her twitter, she posted a picture with her iphone about she cut her hand, few cut, and she posted she said she taking overdose of pills…

Well, my sister and i is getting baptist soon. why is she like that suddenly? she’s very holy, always go to church? but why is she going now when she’s like that ? i can’t judge but its true… she even told my aunty jesus won’t forgive my aunty. i was like, did you read the bible? god is forgiving, who are you to use god’s name and judge his name? is it possible she being disturbed my demon or something? or she’s mad? does she need phychiatrist or consultation? or is she being possesed?

my grandma also like that, both of them my second sister and grand is the same, same attitude…same issues… what to do think is their problem?
  • i shouldnt be posting family affair on the net like my sister, but i really have no choice. it’s catholic forum, i hope you brothers and sisters can i help me… thanks…
 
Oh Andy, I am not sure if your mother did right for throwing her phone on the floor and yelling like mad. You know that kindness and compassion are more effective than all the punishments in the world. Jesus did not punish the Apostles when they did wrong, but embraced their humanity. I think your sister is probably still “good” but needs a good, strong brother to lean on. When we are teenagers we say and do all kinds of crazy things and not really mean it. And reading between the lines leads me to believe that some counsiling would be good for ALL your family. I will pray for all of you.
 
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