Any converts from Eastern Orthodoxy?

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This post was directed to me and it’s a little awkward as I’ve never been married. But thanks for the advice.

If you intended this advice the the Orthodox gentleman Ihad directed my post to, he Is married… to a Catholic who is Not practicing her own Faith, but doesn’t want to become Orthodox either but will attend Orthodox Divine Liturgy with her family. Her husband wants his wife to follow her Faith, but she doesn’t want to. Your advice to involve a priest seems a bit pointless since she’s not following her Faith why would she listen to a priest?
I think you’re overstating it a tiny bit. The issue, I believe, is that she should fulfill her Sunday Obligation by going to a Catholic liturgy instead of (or in addition to) an Orthodox liturgy.

Actually, I’ve been meaning to suggest to DCointin that he and his wife might speak with her bishop. I’m not making any guarantees, of course, but I wouldn’t be at all surprised if the bishop were willing to make an exception for their situation.
 
I think you’re overstating it a tiny bit. The issue, I believe, is that she should fulfill her Sunday Obligation by going to a Catholic liturgy instead of (or in addition to) an Orthodox liturgy.

Actually, I’ve been meaning to suggest to DCointin that he and his wife might speak with her bishop. I’m not making any guarantees, of course, but I wouldn’t be at all surprised if the bishop were willing to make an exception for their situation.
When I was a Catholic, attending an Orthodox Divine Liturgy did fulfill the Obligation…the Melkite Diocese used to put out brochures citing the Official Catholic Church Documents that confirmed that. Though I have heard that the Catholic Church has since changed that practice. I converted to Orthodoxy in 2003, but had been attending Orthodox Divine Liturgy since about 1997.

As it stands now in the Catholic Church, not fulfilling the Obligation is a mortal sin, a mortal sin cuts one off from communion which is essentially a self-imposed ex-communication, so I don’t think it’s overstating anything to say the Catholic wife isn’t practicing her Faith. Her husband had stated that he wants her to, but she won’t attend Mass in addition to Orthodox Divine Liturgy.
 
I converted from Catholicism to Orthodoxy, but I have a Facebook friend who was raised Orthodox, but never believed in it or practiced the Faith on his own but as an adult became caught up with porn, strip clubs & prostitutes who had a “spiritual” experience hearing the voice of Jesus calling him to leave that sinful life behind and because he felt that Orthodoxy couldn’t be the true Faith because he was technically Orthodox while he lived out his addiction to impurity he left the Orthodox Church and eventually joined the Catholic Church.
I’m reminded of a part of Scott Hahn’s story. This isn’t an exact parallel or anything, but in describing the period in his life when he first became zealous about Christianity, he says that one reason he felt certain that Catholicism was wrong were the many Catholic friends he had known who were heavily into drinking, swearing, etc.
 
I’m reminded of a part of Scott Hahn’s story. This isn’t an exact parallel or anything, but in describing the period in his life when he first became zealous about Christianity, he says that one reason he felt certain that Catholicism was wrong were the many Catholic friends he had known who were heavily into drinking, swearing, etc.
Agreed 🙂

I think religions ought to be judged by the Truth taught, not by the failings of it’s members.
 
When I was a Catholic, attending an Orthodox Divine Liturgy did fulfill the Obligation…the Melkite Diocese used to put out brochures citing the Official Catholic Church Documents that confirmed that. Though I have heard that the Catholic Church has since changed that practice. I converted to Orthodoxy in 2003, but had been attending Orthodox Divine Liturgy since about 1997.

As it stands now in the Catholic Church, not fulfilling the Obligation is a mortal sin, a mortal sin cuts one off from communion which is essentially a self-imposed ex-communication, so I don’t think it’s overstating anything to say the Catholic wife isn’t practicing her Faith. Her husband had stated that he wants her to, but she won’t attend Mass in addition to Orthodox Divine Liturgy.
That is not the same as saying “she doesn’t want to” practice her faith, which is what you said in your earlier post.
 
I converted from Catholicism to Orthodoxy, but I have a Facebook friend who was raised Orthodox, but never believed in it or practiced the Faith on his own but as an adult became caught up with porn, strip clubs & prostitutes who had a “spiritual” experience hearing the voice of Jesus calling him to leave that sinful life behind and because he felt that Orthodoxy couldn’t be the true Faith because he was technically Orthodox while he lived out his addiction to impurity he left the Orthodox Church and eventually joined the Catholic Church.
Were you a cradle Catholic? And how is your friend doing now?
 
This post was directed to me and it’s a little awkward as I’ve never been married. But thanks for the advice. Your advice to involve a priest seems a bit pointless since she’s not following her Faith why would she listen to a priest?
The conversation wasn’t aimed directly at you. Just a point elaborated on, which is communicate to each other, counseling/priest.

Why people imperfectly follow Jesus Christ and believe they perfectly do or adequately do? That’s why I recommended the above 1Tim215Mommy; I don’t know the individual. Perhaps those that I mentioned could possibly help?
 
Why not answer your own question? :hmmm: 🤷
I wasn’t answering my own question. I was suggesting an answer to the proposed question. In relation to…

(Your advice to involve a priest seems a bit pointless since she’s not following her Faith why would she listen to a priest?)

(I think religions ought to be judged by the Truth taught, not by the failings of it’s members.)

and over here I thought you were on point…

( I wouldn’t be at all surprised if the bishop were willing to make an exception for their situation.}
 
I wasn’t answering my own question. I was suggesting an answer to the proposed question. In relation to…

(Your advice to involve a priest seems a bit pointless since she’s not following her Faith why would she listen to a priest?)

(I think religions ought to be judged by the Truth taught, not by the failings of it’s members.)

**and over here I thought you were on point…

( I wouldn’t be at all surprised if the bishop were willing to make an exception for their situation.}**
I’m not sure what that has to do with the rest of your post, but thanks for the vote of confidence. :cool::cool:
 
I’m not sure what that has to do with the rest of your post
Hmmm :hmmm: that’s why there is an “and” in the sentence you highlighted…Idiom. What part exactly are you not following. I see you would like to engage me in a conversation. What would you like to discuss exactly? :confused: 🤷
 
I see you would like to engage me in a conversation.
I found this a little puzzling at first … but then it occurred to me that you might have gotten this from post #55 when I said:
FWIW (which I admit may not be much) I personally am glad you haven’t left…
(which I guess could have sounded like I was saying do me a favor and stick around).If that’s the case, then I’d point out the next sentence:
… After everything you posted in the first couple pages of this thread, it would strike me as a little bit hit-and-run-ish if you left now.
 
I’ll reiterate the original question of the OP, since this thread has gone in a strange direction. Are their any converts from Eastern Orthodoxy to Catholicism on CAF? Thank you.
 
I don’t believe that is what DCointin said about his wife, i,e., “she doesn’t want to” follow her (Catholic) faith?
“She isn’t concerned about this.” - ‘This’ being that she isn’t fulfilling her Catholic obligation, one of the Precepts of the Catholic Church, not fulfilling a Holy Day of Obligation is a mortal sin for Catholics. He expressed in his post that he had expressed his concern to his wife about this & her response is she doesn’t care, “isn’t concerned”, about following the Catholic Church.
 
That is not the same as saying “she doesn’t want to” practice her faith, which is what you said in your earlier post.
Per her husband’s posts, he has expressed his concern to her about it, but she doesn’t want to attend a Catholic Mass in addition to Orthodox Divine Liturgy because it’s too much.
 
“She isn’t concerned about this.” - ‘This’ being that she isn’t fulfilling her Catholic obligation, one of the Precepts of the Catholic Church, not fulfilling a Holy Day of Obligation is a mortal sin for Catholics. He expressed in his post that he had expressed his concern to his wife about this & her response is she doesn’t care, “isn’t concerned”, about following the Catholic Church.
No, I think you’re stretching it to mean what you want it to mean, i.e., if she didn’t honestly care about her Catholic faith, then why isn’t she the one converting?
 
Per her husband’s posts, he has expressed his concern to her about it, but she doesn’t want to attend a Catholic Mass in addition to Orthodox Divine Liturgy because it’s too much.
Why would anyone want to attend two different liturgies from two different Apostolic Churches???
 
And how is your friend doing now?
The Facebook friend I mentioned who was raised Orthodox, but never practiced that Faith who later converted to the Catholic Church - he’s completely isolated himself from all of his family by moving to another State and he says he still struggles with Lust every moment and he does not have a Spiritual Father to help guide him from the Passion of Lust to a life of purity as he would have had if he’d turned back to the Orthodox Faith after leading a life abandoned to the slavery of sin. He’s left to try to figure it out on his own and mentioned he tries to go on a hike everyday to get away from people.
 
I’ll reiterate the original question of the OP, since this thread has gone in a strange direction. Are their any converts from Eastern Orthodoxy to Catholicism on CAF? Thank you.
Apparently, there are, but according to another poster, they mainly post or stay in the Apologetics forum.
 
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