I think the point is, in answer to the original post, that it’s difficult to argue against artificial birth control from a purely secular perspective because the variables will change from individual to individual. Each individual will consider it from their own perspective, in their own situation and weigh the risks and benefits.
To argue against artificial birth control by saying that it will ‘stop the normal functioning’ of the reproductive system won’t mean a thing to someone who wants to do exactly that in order to prevent a pregnancy, or to prevent their periods.
In addition, there are some individual who want to ‘stop the normal functioning’ of the reproductive system so that this normal functioning doesn’t interfere with their daily living…regardless of whether it’s functioning normally or abnormally. I know a girl on the swim team who wants to stop the normal functioning of her body, so that her swimming is not interupted, especially at competition time. I know a cheerleader who wants to stop the normal functioning of her body, so that her cheerleading isn’t interupted. I know people who have taken pills to stop their period for weddings, honeymoons, competitions, dances, vacations. And then I know those who take pills regularly so that they don’t have to “deal with” the inconvenience of their periods. These people want to stop a normal function because the function is inconvenient.
To argue against artificial birth control by saying that it causes some cancers, especially those who are genetically predisposed to it, won’t mean a thing to someone who considers getting pregnant a higher risk than getting a form of cancer, especially if they have no occurrences of that cancer in their family, or if they only intend to take that contraceptive for a certain amount of time. Plus, while it may cause some cancers, it can prevent others.
To argue against artificial birth control by saying that it causes high blood pressure, and raises chances of pulmonary emboli and/or stroke won’t mean a thing to someone who has a good blood pressure and who considers pregnancy a bigger risk than developing birth control – plus they can plan on cessation of the birth control if the blood pressure rises, or take another medication to lower the blood pressure.
The fact is, people consider having children (or even big families) a burden in today’s society and economy, more so when there is an attempt to push having kids on them.And the harder one pushes, the harder another will pull in the opposite direction. Honestly the Catholic Church is the only entity that pushes having children on couples as hard as they do. So coming up with secular arguments will be difficult.
Sure, with marriage comes children. But believe it or not, there are many many people who don’t consider having children a definite requirement, and they don’t believe in the notion to have as many as possible unless there is “serious reason” not to. In fact, from a purely secular perspective, it’s a ridiculous notion. I have read many posts on CAF that say that if you don’t plan on having children (and without limit), then you must not get married. This notion is in the very small minority in the real world. Many people get married without thinking about having kids, and many people get married with the intention of having a certain number of children. That’s life, that’s the way it is. Not everyone is called to have a large family, and it shows in the statistics…it shows in the congregations.
Should we just stop trying to make secular arguments? No, of course not. We should definitely keep trying. But don’t be too disappointed when each argument is met with a counter argument. Secularly speaking, it depends on the individual, their stage of development, their economic status, their marital status, their state of health, etc. Without the fire and brimstone of the Church, there aren’t too many arguments that can’t be countered with another…
I’d like to point out one more obvious thing: If the Catholic Church, with all its teachings, all it’s fire and brimstone, can’t get Catholics themselves to comply with the strict teachings that forbid artificial birth control (for the intent to limit births), how can there be any strong secular arguments to convince the secular world?