Promise Keepers was huge when my husband and I were younger (in our 30s and 40s) with children at home. The main purpose seemed to be to help men stop using porn and to have stronger marriages.
I’'m sure it helped a lot of men who probably didn’t need a lot of outside help, but just a little encouragement to stick with their marriage and stop using porn. (Remember, Evangelical Protestants do not have any prohibition of masturbation, but they do condemn pornography.)
But I think a lot of men were NOT helped by it. Huge meetings with thousands of other men, concerts by contemporary Christian musicians, and dynamic speakers are enjoyable (for many men), but when you leave, the marriage problems are still there and the desire to use porn doesn’t just go away. Many men need counselling and ongoing help from professionals to deal with besetting sins like porn, and marital issues, and I’m not sure that Promise Keepers encouraged men to get this kind of professional help…
My husband was never interested in PK. He doesn’t enjoy big meetings with lots of men, but would rather meet regularly with a small group of men friends. He’s been going to a “That Man Is You!” group (Catholic) at our parish, but he is very frustrated with it because of the attitude of the author of this organization and because there is no interest from any of the men in forming social groups and going out for coffee and talk after the meeting . The instant the meeting is over, the guys are OUTATHERE! . Also, the meetings are held at 6:30 a.m. on Saturdays, and my husband is a late night person who wishes that they could do a meeting at 9:00 p.m. on a weeknkight instead.