Anyone feel like they won't ever get married?

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Honestly I think my last date that was a date was May 2005. I have been out since then with some female friends, but alas, not dates:(
 
CWBetts said:
Honestly I think my last date that was a date was May 2005. I have been out since then with some female friends, but alas, not dates:(
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Okay I won’t complain anymore then. At least I get a date once a year usually an average of 4. This year all four just happened in the same month. 😃 Seriously though I take myself out with friends. It’s a lot less nerve wracking and sometimes more fun though it would be nice to have a guy for those slow dances. 😃 👍 😉
 
Sierrah said:
Okay you’ve got me beat by a couple of years. :eek: :eek:
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That was the last time I saw my last ex before the break-up. If going out with a then-girlfriend didn’t count as a date, then we have to go back to early 2004. Granted, I could come up with a couple of ambiguous meetings in the meantime, but none was designated as a date or resulted in any romantic relationship. And the 2004 is nothing I would like to remember (turned out she was neither single nor interested regardless of certain obvious displays). So unless I’m forgetting something, 2003 would be it… Wait. Err… Guess most people would call that dating, though she retroactively claimed it wasn’t at it was never actually designated as such. Hmm… All right. I’m shutting up before I go back to highschool times.
 
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Okay I won’t complain anymore then. At least I get a date once a year usually an average of 4. This year all four just happened in the same month. 😃 Seriously though I take myself out with friends. It’s a lot less nerve wracking and sometimes more fun though it would be nice to have a guy for those slow dances. 😃 👍 😉
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Actually I’ll take that back, the slow dance thing reminded me of the College dance/theatre fundraiser I took by friend Sarah to, it was kind of a not-date, but we did have a slow dance
 
Heavenly Father please grant the prayers of all in this thread who are seeking loving life-partners. Please bring them together soon, as though for You "a thousand years are a single day, a yesterday now over, an hour of the night.” [Psalm 90:4] for those waiting for the right person to love and be loved by, a day can be a thousand years!
I ask this in the name of Jesus
 
Do I feel like I will never get married? hmm… The thought has crossed my mind 😃
 
happymommy said:
Silly boy:whacky: I’m sure you will meet a wonderful girl someday!
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Of course I will! I know it, since I may have already met her 😉

I’m just teasing all ya, though. I have just never gone out on a date before! I shouldn’t count the years I wasn’t able to date…so really I haven’t had a date in a year and a half 😛
 
Belgarion said:
Of course I will! I know it, since I may have already met her 😉

I’m just teasing all ya, though. I have just never gone out on a date before! I shouldn’t count the years I wasn’t able to date…so really I haven’t had a date in a year and a half 😛
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“May have already met her”👍
 
This thread sounds like a train of hope about to derail with many hopeful passengers. Where are the success stories in this 8 month prayer filled thread? No one’s asking for instant marriage, but is anyone actually ACTIVELY dating someone and can affix this to the prayers of people in this group? And did it happen after this thread was created?

I think not.
 
GloriusMaximus said:
This thread sounds like a train of hope about to derail with many hopeful passengers. Where are the success stories in this 8 month prayer filled thread? No one’s asking for instant marriage, but is anyone actually ACTIVELY dating someone and can affix this to the prayers of people in this group? And did it happen after this thread was created?

I think not.
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You think wrong.
 
GloriusMaximus said:
This thread sounds like a train of hope about to derail with many hopeful passengers. Where are the success stories in this 8 month prayer filled thread? No one’s asking for instant marriage, but is anyone actually ACTIVELY dating someone and can affix this to the prayers of people in this group? And did it happen after this thread was created?

I think not.
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What’s the point of this?

Are you saying that talking about it, and praying together does not help at all?
 
Belgarion said:
What’s the point of this?

Are you saying that talking about it, and praying together does not help at all?
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If God’s will isn’t that someone should get married, then no matter how much you talk or pray about it, it isn’t going to get you married through that avenue.Then there are those people who will insist on discerning God’s will, go ahead, discern away for the next 40 years 👍

Talking about it will help, maybe help you see things clearly of course.
 
GloriusMaximus said:
If God’s will isn’t that someone should get married, then no matter how much you talk or pray about it, it isn’t going to get you married through that avenue.Then there are those people who will insist on discerning God’s will, go ahead, discern away for the next 40 years 👍

Talking about it will help, maybe help you see things clearly of course.
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I feel you are being a tad disrespectful. Many of these peope are in real pain, and you respond by being irreverent an flippant! :tsktsk: at the vey least you owe these people an abology for your utter lack of tact. Just think before you post.
 
GloriusMaximus said:
If God’s will isn’t that someone should get married, then no matter how much you talk or pray about it, it isn’t going to get you married through that avenue.Then there are those people who will insist on discerning God’s will, go ahead, discern away for the next 40 years 👍

Talking about it will help, maybe help you see things clearly of course.
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That’s absolutely not true.
Not only will talking about it, and praying together help YOU, but it will help others. Perhaps not with finding the right one, but at the very least, emotionally and spiritually.

Plus, you have no idea what God’s will is. The people who are on here will know their vocation better than you will.

Don’t act like you know their fate better than they do.

Were YOU hurt, too?Are you still waiting, and thus bitter about the very idea of patience and discernment.

Usually when someone responds with this kind of aggressiveness or hostility, its personal for them.
 
::patpats:: It’s alright Glori. I know how upsetting it can be when you feel like you’re life is just spinning its wheels. Chin up. :^)

As for me, I know I wind up finding someone. I’ve already seen my daughter. Now I just need to meet her mother. ;^P
 
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