I tried to take it on the tongue, once, and the priest dropped it. Thank goodness my relfexes are good and I caught it, but he was very irritated. I was irritated that a priest did not know how to give Communion on the tongue. Another priest I know makes a face. I hear he has some sort of germ-phobia. Most ignore it, but I canât.
In my old diocese, my friends took it kneeling on the tongue. The new priest, a roly-poly man, became red in the face and hollered, âget upâ!, his jowls shaking from side to side. He was literally seething in anger. He refused to give it to him. I had already left the parish in disgust, and I am so glad I wasnât there. Thank God I wasnât there the day he had his dog up on the Altar with him.
I question the faith and belief of the priests who seem to prefer communion in the hand. I know they are required to give it, but we know the good priests from the bad. The careless, âliberal-mindedâ, lukewarm ones donât like it on the tongue. We have a priest in our diocese who cannot say Mass here because he cannot bring himself to give Communion in the hand. Needless to say, he is a very holy man, a true-believer. Heâs the one you want to go to confession to. Young, too.
My multiple bad experiences have made Communion an occasion of turmoil for me. I pass no judgement on people based on how they take Communion. I, however, cannot take it in the hand. It just does not convey the proper reverence. I rarely take from the Chalice. Somehow it doesnât seem right when I see the priest pour the wine into six or seven chalices instead of just one. It seems profane to me. They donât bother to incense anymore because it is too much trouble. Incensing keeps the evil spirits out of Mass. And we wonder why we are in such dire straits.
I was told by someone that we should be receiving from the priest, not giving ourselves Communion. (Although Jesus did say take, and eat, and, originally it was taken home in a white cloth). Iâm not saying it is wrong to take it in the hand or take from the Cup. Again, no judgements on those who administer it or take it. Itâs just that I crave a worthy, holy Communion.
Pray for more holy priests like we are seeing come out of the seminaries lately. It is our only hope.