Given that more and more abuse revelations are coming out still… given that all seem to ignore the fact that nearly 40% voted no… given that the majority of the clergy are too old to work miracles which fact as the decline of the clergy is due to the child abuse… I think folk are theologising the vote far too much and thus will miss the real causes. Also bishops are ineffectual as they are scared of losing priests and so discipline is lax as we see from ACP and the newer Irish Catholic Society… which is as lax and pro “inclusive” as ACP…Few can now speak with any authority… and Archbishop Martin is the only sane and humble voice to be heardDear All,
The recent vote in Ireland has lessons for the Church in the USA and in the world. My husband Thomas wrote about this in his blog entry HERE:
Please let us continue to pray for one another.
I really… really, hope it only takes fifty years.It was ridiculous, and in fifty years nobody will believe all this stupidity ever happened.
This is apathy and sloth. We will not bear with it any more than we will bear with abortion, or bear with murder, or bear with child abuse.No, I am not sad or surprised. This is inevitable and I see no good reasons to prevent secular same-sex marriage and I’m tired of seeing all these threads about it. May as well just grit your teeth and bear with it because it’s coming to the USA nation wide, too any day now.
Well I don’t see anyone on the bandwagon to protest divorce, remarriage, contraception, etc. Meanwhile not recognizing same-sex marriage whether or not you agree with it is affecting families and children. It’s not apathetic to think of what happens when a partner dies and the child is ripped from his mother’s arms because she is not the legal mother. You will probably encounter the child is exposed to the gay lifestyle but there are plenty of children in unusual situations – some are in polygamous families, some have parents who are not married, etc. And I don’t think they should be ripped from their homes by the state, either.As for you not seeing any reason to renounce it, there are a myriad or reasons, not least of which is that when the public accepts it, those who continue to uphold reality and reject the farce are inevitably persecuted. We’re already seeing it in European nations, as well as Canada; and we here in America are not immune from it. There are tons of other reasons as well, ranging from how it affects the popular understanding of just what marriage is and is meant to be; to the fact that by passively allowing it we are being lukewarm in our faith and may be spit out from the mouth of the Father at our particular judgment.
Then you are really, really, not paying attention. This issue gets the most attention because it is advancing with the greatest speed at the moment. Even with this focus, there are numerous groups still constantly working to overturn abortion laws and reaffirm the realities of marriage. The fact that you don’t see them tell me you’re just not looking for them.Well I don’t see anyone on the bandwagon to protest divorce, remarriage, contraception, etc.
I really hope you understand how poor an argument this is. You’re saying that because the child being in an immoral situation leads to a secondary bad outcome, we should somehow ignore that the initial situation is immoral… If the child was living with her mother and her father as God intended, it wouldn’t be an issue. Instead, homosexual couples use sperm donations to get themselves pregnant (because their union is incapable of such a feat), bringing a child into a situation that is already shattered beyond recovery, and then claiming that we should legitimize their immoral situation to prevent the child from being further harmed by their decisions. This is the same as drug users saying that drugs should be made legal because they experience negative effects in prison. (A notion that is, unfortunately, likewise gaining speed in our nation…)Meanwhile not recognizing same-sex marriage whether or not you agree with it is affecting families and children. It’s not apathetic to think of what happens when a partner dies and the child is ripped from his mother’s arms because she is not the legal mother.
Then you suspect incorrectly. I may not be homosexual, but I have my own illicit desires that I have struggled with for years, desires that I can never morally fulfill. Do not presume that your situation is unique or can’t be identified with simply because my experiences do not directly correlate to yours.I have been gay all my life. I suspect that you don’t know anything about what that’s like.
There is nothing immoral about being homosexual, just as there is nothing inherently immoral in experiencing any kind of attraction. What is immoral is allowing those desires to overwhelm our moral integrity; or using them as an excuse to ignore the moral law that God has given us.I highly doubt there is anything wrong with it.
In the whole of human history, there has thus far only been one group or set of ideals to make that claim and actually be able to stand by it. That is the Catholic Church. Every other religion, every other ideology, every other civilization, empire, philosophy, “ethics”, and social drive has been subject to change or outright destruction by the power of popular opinion and ideology. The Church is the only institution in existence who’s dogmas have remained constant over any extended period of time (on a historic scale, not a human scale).Whether there is or not there is no secular reason to oppose these marriage rights as the good outweighs the bad. It doesn’t matter anyway because there is no way this trend will be reversed whether you like it or not.
I have to say, I have wondered whether the Church will at some point take this view. It seems to me that that is the view of the Church on divorce, that sometimes civil divorce is useful or necessary to protect one spouse and the children. So, sadly, I can imagine the Church saying that while SS"M" is not the ideal, sometimes it is useful to protect the financial / custodial well-being of children.I really hope you understand how poor an argument this is. You’re saying that because the child being in an immoral situation leads to a secondary bad outcome, we should somehow ignore that the initial situation is immoral… If the child was living with her mother and her father as God intended, it wouldn’t be an issue. Instead, homosexual couples use sperm donations to get themselves pregnant (because their union is incapable of such a feat), bringing a child into a situation that is already shattered beyond recovery, and then claiming that we should legitimize their immoral situation to prevent the child from being further harmed by their decisions. This is the same as drug users saying that drugs should be made legal because they experience negative effects in prison. (A notion that is, unfortunately, likewise gaining speed in our nation…)
The Church has always held that it is sometimes necessary for a person to separate from their spouse for health or safety reasons, that’s nothing new. What’s new is the culture’s immoral conclusion that this means they can get remarried. In those instances, the marriage is presumed valid, but has become untenable. Even if they divorce, the marriage is still valid. This is the not same as SS"M", where the marriage is incapable of being valid to begin with.I have to say, I have wondered whether the Church will at some point take this view. It seems to me that that is the view of the Church on divorce, that sometimes civil divorce is useful or necessary to protect one spouse and the children. So, sadly, I can imagine the Church saying that while SS"M" is not the ideal, sometimes it is useful to protect the financial / custodial well-being of children.Although that scares me - - I am not in favor of SS"M".
Plenty of things have ‘spread’ and have then. . .disappeared.We will just have to agree to disagree. I don’t believe in the state taking children out of families of gay couples, the divorced or remarried, polygamous families, or what have you – not on the basis of those things alone.
I don’t see any reversal of state recognition of gay unions happening. It has spread to countries around the world and isn’t slowing down.