- Sarah/Hagar/Abraham: On a personal level, Sarah’s lack of faith, and Abraham’s willingness to go along with it, lead not only to deep personal anguish for all three involved, it also led to trauma for Isaac and Ishmael who were denied the fraternal bond they rightly shared. On a global level, it was the start of deep distrust, murder, war and fratricide which continues right until the present time.
Jacob/Rachel/Leah/Bilhah/Zilpah: Not only a polygamous marriage, but a polygamous marriage involving two sisters. Again, deep troubles personally for all five people involved in this polygamous marriage. Again, divisions and factions among the offspring, including the selling of a brother and the rape of a step-mother (or whatever you call the wife of your father who is not your mother).
David/Bathsheeba/etc: murder, adultery, a child dead for the sins of the parent(s), rape of a daughter by her half brother, a revenge murder by another brother and attempted murder of a father by a son.
Solomon/harem of wives: Solomon’s heart was turned away from God by the idolatrous practices of his wives…indeed, his kingdom was split in two, both halves warring against each other. There was no reconciliation and both halves were eventually conquered and the land of the Jews was lost to others…an inconceivable tragedy.
- We know that a lack of direct “do not…” from God does not mean that he approves of all actions recorded in the Bible.
- We know that Sacred Tradition goes hand in hand with Sacred Scripture. To rely on one over the other is to have an unbalanced view.
Taken together, these three points are more than enough evidence for me that God does not condone polygamy.
If you would like to speak as an “expert” on the Bible, or be considered learned enough to challenge it, you have to put in the time…and it’s a LOT more than an hour. God cannot be partitioned down to a few memes, a few “bullet” points to make your point for you.
I hope you DO decide to dig deeper into understanding His word…it is a game changer!