I’d recommend Refuting the Attack on Mary, by Fr. Mateo. If I’m not mistaken, it originally appeared as a series of articles in This Rock, the magazine of Catholic Answers.
Two books that will give you all the ammunition you need to understand what relationship Mary has with her Son and us are , True Devotion to Mary and The Secret of Mary both written by St. Louis de Montfort. Guaranteed!
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