That’s not what I’ve seen. I’m in RCIA and was told that at confirmation, I will be asked if I believe or agree w/all the docrtines of the church.
I was baptized and confirmed last Easter. No one asked me these questions.
Though, on my own, I would not have been baptized if I did not believe the Church teaches what is correct. During Lent, I spent a lot of time praying, fasting, and searching my own conscience, asking God to guide me. There were a few personal items that I had to get straight, things that no one would know about ever, but I didn’t want to be baptized with any lingering “doubts”.
For that reason, I cannot be RC unless I DO agree w/them all. The 4 Mary dogmas must be believed. I am able to say, “Those dogmas are possible, but I can’t say for sure since only God knows.” but that would not be acceptable to the RCC.

I understand! msl4, I guess I approached it differently. I accept that the Catholic Church is the Church that Jesus founded. I accept that the Catholic Church is led by the Holy Spirit. I didn’t come to this acceptance over night. And it is not something that I can say Wednesday I didn’t believe this, Thursday I did. It was an integral part of my conversion.
I accepted the “4 Mary dogmas” because I didn’t find them unacceptable. There is nothing in those doctrines that caused me to run screaming from the pew. It took me the longest time to say prayer one to Mary, and I still pray far more to Jesus than any Saint. But I like knowing she is there and that she is our Star, a guiding light to her Son. I carry a small Rosary around with me everywhere. The error I see sometimes, with some Catholics, is that they get to Mary and stop…gotta keep going where she is guiding us to! Her Son. This is the same for the Marian dogmas. These teachings do not exist on their own, you have to take them to where they lead: Jesus Christ.
Experience has taught me that the Marian dogmas are correct. And that is one thing I believe is important. I don’t have faith for the sake of having faith. Our faith is experienced.
Same with confession to a priest as the only way to obtain forgiveness for mortal sins. So far, I don’t believe this is true, so I would not be able to be RC. If those things are NOT true, I don’t want to be RC, that’s why I’m carefully studying. The only reason I’d convert is if it’s true that I wont be forgiven w/out a priest’s absolution.
Confession is scripture based and also found in all of the ECF writings. This was important to me, as I wanted to know that the Sacraments have a solid apostolic foundation. Confession is one of the things that most certainly does.
I didn’t want to accept this myself, because I didn’t want to do it. I spent decades not believing in sin, let alone a belief that you confessed such a thing. I have a hard time, still, working up the will to tell someone stuff I don’t tell anyone. But, I believe it is a correct teaching.
I expressed this to the deacon in our RCIA once, and he said that it is very normal for adult converts. For my own experience, this is another part of our faith that is experienced. There is no way for me to convey to you the graces that come through this Sacrament. But they are, very literally, astounding.
It is a Sacrament of healing, not of condemnation.