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He was confused and wanted to know if I thought Jesus was only present in some churches. I said, and here’s the rub, that I thought Jesus was likely more present in churches which had apostolic succession. Don’t even know if that’s right, so forgive and help my ignorance.
Then he said ‘So if I go to Uganda to reach the lost, I can’t give them ‘proper’ communion as a lay man?’ To which I said ‘No, I don’t suppose you can’. Which then got the response that it was elitist.
Help! What do I say to that??
You are right. Although Jesus is present in all Christian communities, He is present in a unique and special way in the Eucharist, Holy Communion, which is only found in Church’s that have legitimate Apostolic Succession, that is Catholic Church and Orthodox Churches.
Truth verses a false sentimental sense of justice
Actually, the Catholic Church’s position is very humble, and the position,
“that we (some man made Protestant denomination) are just as worthy as anyone else,
SO we also have the right to make Jesus just as present as can be found in any Christian Church
(consecrate the bread and wine into the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ)
is actually a sinfully proud position to take. To see that consider the following.
Let’s examine what it means to be an elitist.
An elitist claims to have bragging rights, that he is somehow better than others.
A person can only brag about what he has in himself, what he himself has accomplished, i.e., what he has in regards to his own nature. He cannot rightfully brag about what God has freely and mercifully given to him.
If the Protestant claims that he is “just as good as anyone else” he is claiming that no one is better than he is, that is the best, or at least tied for the best. While he might claim that “he has the right” the good Catholic – I do not defend the actions of Catholics who act contrary to Catholic teaching – on the other hand, with his head bowed to God, believes that no one has the right in and of himself, to be an ordained a priest and to consecrate, to change, the bread and the wine.
If a Catholic layman presents himself to the bishop and demands ordination, the bishop would rightly deny his request for the simple reason that no one has the right to demand it. Catholics believe that only by the free gift of God’s grace can a person be made worthy to be a priest. By our own human nature we are sinners. It is only by sharing in what God in His mercy gives to us so that we “become partakers of the divine nature” 2 Peter 1:4, that we have anything that is good. So, for the Catholic, there is nothing to brag about but God and His goodness.
2 Corinthians 3:5-6
“Not that of ourselves we are qualified to take credit for anything as coming from us; rather, our qualification comes from God, who has indeed qualified us as ministers of a new covenant …”
Ordination is not about power, but about service. It is important to note, that according to Catholic theology, a person who becomes a priest, or a bishop, or even the Pope, is not free to do as he wishes, but is only free to do what God wants the priest or bishop to do. If he does anything to the contrary to God’s will that is a sin for which he will be punished.
Now, if a person claims that all positions in the church are given to everyone in a ubiquitous manner and that everyone is equal in teaching or leading (contrary to 1 Corinthians 12:28-30) then this would mean that the person who teaches that Jesus is truly present in Holy Communion has the same validity as the person who teaches the contrary. The consequences of that would mean that either the Truth is irrelevant or that it is unknowable.
But Jesus teaches :
**John 14:6
“Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life.’ ” **
Jesus, who is he Truth, cannot be relegated to being irrelevant. Nor is it plausible to accept that he failed in providing us a way of knowing the truth. Therefore, the position that there is no hierarchy in leadership is false.
See more on the importance of
Truth at
defendingthebride.com/mc/truth.html
I suggest that you begin your discussion with your husband with the subject that you hopefully have in common, and which will lead to a greater understanding on why your position is correct. That subject is the importance of Truth, and why subjective Relativism is wrong.
Please consider the links that are provided in the series of posts that are made in this thread on
Relativism:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=963711
See more on the Biblical case for
Hierarchy at
defendingthebride.com/ch/hand.html#5
See more on the Biblical case for
Apostolic Succession at
defendingthebride.com/ch/hand.html
.