After even more reflection…
I just came out of a youth group meeting where I had a riff with the pastor of the parish He challenged me to show a source where the Church has declared homosexual acts to be immoral. I held that this is what the Church teaches. When I arrived home, I found that my catechism states very cleary that homosexual acts do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved" [CCC 2357].
CCC 2390, “…The sexual act must take place exclusively within marriage. Outside of marriage it always constitutes a grave sin…”
He also told the us that we should follow what we truly believed to be right (although not what we think is easiest).
We all have the duty to form correct consciences.
CCC 1783, “Conscience must be informed and moral judgment enlightened…The education of conscience is indispensable for human beings who are subjected to negative influences and tempted by sin to prefer their own judgment and to reject authoritative teachings.”
CCC 2088. “The first commandment requires us to nourish and protect our faith with prudence and vigilance, and to reject everything that is opposed to it. There are various ways of sinning against faith:
Voluntary doubt about the faith disregards or refuses to hold as true what God has revealed and the Church proposes for belief.
Involuntary doubt refers to hesitation in believing, difficulty in overcoming objections connected with the faith, or also anxiety aroused by its obscurity. If deliberately cultivated doubt can lead to
spiritual blindness.”
He claims as well that because they are in a loving relationship, certain homosexual acts are necessary sins.
CCC 1755, “The
object of the choice can by itself vitiate an act in its entirety. There are some concrete acts - such as fornication - that it is always wrong to choose, because choosing them entails a disorder of the will, that is, a moral evil.”
He argued that we would prefer them in these relationships than in promiscuous ones.
The pastor seems to have his vocation as spiritual shepherd confused with that of the medical shepherds, who already state as much for medical reasons. This is evidence of spiritual blindness.
This is his idea of the pastoral approach. What do teens know of the pastoral approach? And does that make it right or acceptable?
*We don’t want a sinner to be hurt by his sins but pain can lead to repentance.
1 Cor 5:5, “you are to deliver this man to Satan* for the destruction of his flesh, so that his spirit may be saved on the day of the Lord.”*
Deliver this man to Satan: once the sinner is expelled from the church, the sphere of Jesus’ lordship and victory will be in the region outside over which Satan is still master.
For the destruction of his flesh: the purpose of the penalty is medicinal: through affliction, sin’s grip over him may be destroyed and the path to repentance and reunion laid open. With Paul’s instructions for an excommunication ceremony here, contrast his recommendations for the reconciliation of a sinner in 2 Cor 2:5-11.
Quotation from The New American Bible, along with the corresponding footnotes.Pastoral theology would have guidelines as to when such actions would be appropriate (I can’t help you with a source on this subject. Sorry

.) Curbing the disastrous medical effects of sin may actually frustrate repentance from sin because the negative effects of sin often lead people to God.
*Preferring one deadly sin over another is no spiritual help. It isn’t any easier to repent of a committed lifestyle than a promiscuous lifestyle.
*A pastoral statement to teens would take the form of an exhortation to pray for purity of mind and actions, and for the conversion of sinners and to make reparation for sexual sins. It could promote in them a sense of solidarity and compassion by teaching the virtue of chastity and explaining the spiritual, physical, emotional and relational harm that homosexuals experience as a result of their sexual acts. It could also teach the young people how to disarm the bullying tactics they use to sway public opinion, and to correct the errors that they believe about God and the Catholic Church.
May God bless you.