Are people born homosexual ?

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I have lesbian friends and associates. Aside from the fact their relationships are structured on the Yin/Yang of one being in the feminine role and one being in the masculine role (which is usually the case with gay male couples as well, but not always), it was the issue of gender identity (i.e., I’m a ‘girl’ born into a boys body) what I was speaking of. That is not specifically gay, that is what leads to transsexuals. Dr. Nicolosi began to speak about that where I tuned him off.

Gender is a social construct but the fact is neither here nor there in attacking psychological therapy to rectify the situation of a person that is a male who is but of the female gender (socially constructed).

In other words when little boys are dressed not as girls but 25 year old women with painted toes, they have received their views of gender (female in this case) from society.

Isolated one might be genderless. But even ferrel kids adapt behavioral traits of the animals they are around. Institutionalized children left in some of the orphanages of Eastern Europe, where they rarely have human contact and affection, are some of the most mentally and emotionally damaged children on earth.

Gender affiliation functions much in the social life of humans much the way our tool culture is put to practical use for us.

Masculinity does not have to be biological heritable to be real.
Something I’ve never seen addressed by those who believe that “gender” is somehow distinct from an individual’s sex: If “gender” is purely a social construct, how is it that certain “masculine” and certain “feminine” traits are consistent across ALL cultures throughout history, including those isolated from all outside contact until relatively recent times.
 
Something I’ve never seen addressed by those who believe that “gender” is somehow distinct from an individual’s sex: If “gender” is purely a social construct, how is it that certain “masculine” and certain “feminine” traits are consistent across ALL cultures throughout history, including those isolated from all outside contact until relatively recent times.
it seems that you confuse gender identity, which is personal, with some variety of social constructs, which are not.
 
it seems that you confuse gender identity, which is personal, with some variety of social constructs, which are not.
But, as evidenced by these traits being so universal throughout time and cultures, and always associated with the same sex, if a male “identifies” as female, then that is something outside the human norm, and therefore a disorder - not something to celebrate and encourage, but to treat.
 
Something I’ve never seen addressed by those who believe that “gender” is somehow distinct from an individual’s sex: If “gender” is purely a social construct, how is it that certain “masculine” and certain “feminine” traits are consistent across ALL cultures throughout history, including those isolated from all outside contact until relatively recent times.
You might be talking about dominance roles?

You may have a point to some extent. Dogs hump our legs to show dominance. Then again… bonobos pretty much have female dominated troops or whatever their communities are called. So far as I know.

But there are cultural differences among human populations as to what constitutes femininity. I was reading about some Cambodian ethnic group in which the females when they reach a certain age file their teeth to points and blacken their teeth. :eek:

There’s some African tribe that likes big obese women too. I mean obese. And some Asian ethnic group that likes long necks on women, so, they put rings around girls necks and keeping adding more on as the girls age until the look like giraffes.

And you’ve heard about how the Chinese used to be with a thing for adult women with deformed feet the size of toddler’s.
 
You might be talking about dominance roles?

You may have a point to some extent. Dogs hump our legs to show dominance. Then again… bonobos pretty much have female dominated troops or whatever their communities are called. So far as I know.
Neither dogs nor bonobos are human, and are therefore irrelevant to the discussion.
But there are cultural differences among human populations as to what constitutes femininity. I was reading about some Cambodian ethnic group in which the females when they reach a certain age file their teeth to points and blacken their teeth. :eek:

There’s some African tribe that likes big obese women too. I mean obese. And some Asian ethnic group that likes long necks on women, so, they put rings around girls necks and keeping adding more on as the girls age until the look like giraffes.

And you’ve heard about how the Chinese used to be with a thing for adult women with deformed feet the size of toddler’s.
Regardless of these expressions of femininity, there are always certain things in every culture that (until recently) were the near-exclusive domain of males or females. Men take on the high-risk tasks such as hunting and protecting the group because - speaking from a strictly biological standpoint - we’re expendable. Necessary, but expendable. Strictly speaking, the male’s biological role in forming a child ends at the moment of orgasm. The female role continues for 9 months. The female biological role being so much more demanding and long-term, they take on the lower-risk tasks of caring for the home and being the “gatherers” in hunter-gatherer cultures. This isn’t some “construct” - this is, at the root, how we are, as evidenced by the presence of this labor division across all historic (and pre-historic) cultures until recently.
 
But, as evidenced by these traits being so universal throughout time and cultures, and always associated with the same sex, if a male “identifies” as female, then that is something outside the human norm, and therefore a disorder - not something to celebrate and encourage, but to treat.
This is not an area which I understand. Normal, simply means average. Eskimos are not normal, but they are not “disordered”.

I don’t think anyone disagrees that transgendered individuals can use assistance. What that assistance should be, is controversial - whether it should be restricted to psychotherapy, or should extend to reassignment surgery. For someone who is religious, then religious views properly play a role in making that decision.

I have compassion for the people who suffer with this condition. But it doesn’t interest me much, nor do I understand it. I would not put myself in the position of telling someone with the condition what to do about it, other than to seek the advice of someone who is an expert. I doubt that too many people on this forum are experts on the topic, though some may be.
 
With all due respect, we can redefine it, and in the UK homosexual marriage is to be made legal. I welcome the move
and once it is legal for gays to marry then it is time to stop discriminating against plural marriages and close blood relation marriages. Since marriage is no longer tied to the production of children then anyone who wishes to be married to take advantage of the perks the state offers should be allowed to marry.😃

If two lesbian women can marry then there is no logical reason why I can’t marry my mother.
 
Homosexuals are not a different species marriage is a human institution and if we can agree it is a good thing we should open it up to everyone.
as far as the state is concerned marriage is only a good thing if you are producing kids. Otherwise there is no reason for the state to have anything to do with marriage.
 
Come on homosexuality is not evil, it exists in the same way heterosexuality exists
the homosexual act is evil, the same way heterosexual act is evil outside of marriage. It is a misuse of the sex/marital act.
 
as far as the state is concerned marriage is only a good thing if you are producing kids. Otherwise there is no reason for the state to have anything to do with marriage.
I find it interesting that the trend is away from marriage for heterosexuals, while homosexuals are fighting for what they see as the right to marry. The broader social trends of the two demographics are moving in opposite directions.
 
If two men or two women want to live together, they should be able to. Whether or not they are sexually active is not anyone else’s business, just as any other neighbours’ sex lives are not our business either.
this has been going on for generations. Nothing new here. The question is do we make anyone living together legally entitled to perks that were once exclusive to those who tended to produce children 90% of the time because that is what their sex organs were designed to do?

personally I’m fine with doing away with all marriage perks of any kind. But if the state is going to open those perks and benefits up to people who don’t qualify under the old rules then I want the right to have access too. I live with my elderly mother. She loves me and I love her. There is no logical reason why we should be denied a marriage license if two lesbians can legally get a marriage license.
 
I find it interesting that the trend is away from marriage for heterosexuals, while homosexuals are fighting for what they see as the right to marry. The broader social trends of the two demographics are moving in opposite directions.
yes, because society has pushed the idea that personal happiness is the most important thing in life. If you are unhappy in your marriage you leave. Or why marry at all when you can enjoy the perks of marriage without the responsibility or commitment?
 
yes, because society has pushed the idea that personal happiness is the most important thing in life. If you are unhappy in your marriage you leave. Or why marry at all when you can enjoy the perks of marriage without the responsibility or commitment?
my sense is that my grandparents generation held being of service to others as a high value. even to the extent of locking their doors. my grandfather refuses to lock his doors, because he thinks, quite logically, that they should be unlocked in case someone wants to get in. what if a neighbor needs something?

that example might not be the best, but the point is thinking of others before himself. i also notice in their language that they refer to being in the military as, “being in service.” younger people don’t think of an avocation as one of being in service to others, as much. i mention this, because it was an important observation for me, to help me decide which direction to go in my own life.
 
my sense is that my grandparents generation held being of service to others as a high value. even to the extent of locking their doors. my grandfather refuses to lock his doors, because he thinks, quite logically, that they should be unlocked in case someone wants to get in. what if a neighbor needs something?

that example might not be the best, but the point is thinking of others before himself. i also notice in their language that they refer to being in the military as, “being in service.” younger people don’t think of an avocation as one of being in service to others, as much. i mention this, because it was an important observation for me, to help me decide which direction to go in my own life.
Epan,

I have also noticed your moniker used to say Methodist and you have in the past been radically pro-Homosexual.
 
Grace & Peace!
Regardless of these expressions of femininity, there are always certain things in every culture that (until recently) were the near-exclusive domain of males or females. Men take on the high-risk tasks such as hunting and protecting the group because - speaking from a strictly biological standpoint - we’re expendable. Necessary, but expendable. Strictly speaking, the male’s biological role in forming a child ends at the moment of orgasm. The female role continues for 9 months. The female biological role being so much more demanding and long-term, they take on the lower-risk tasks of caring for the home and being the “gatherers” in hunter-gatherer cultures.
This isn’t quite the case, Monkey–there are things at which men will be better than women and* vice versa* by virtue of their biology and these, yes, may go on to inform understandings and constructions of gender, but when it comes to the idea that rigid and deterministic constructions of gender are universal, even or especially among hunter-gatherer tribespeople, there’s not a lot of evidence. A quick google of tribes in which women hunt should provide a lot of reading on the topic, including this from the ever-helpful and ubiquitous Wikipedia:

A vast amount of ethnographic and archaeological evidence demonstrates that the sexual division of labor in which men hunt and women gather wild fruits and vegetables is an uncommon phenomenon among hunter-gatherers worldwide. Although most of the gathering is usually done by women, a society in which men completely abstained from gathering easily available plants has yet to be found. Generally women hunt the majority of the small game while men hunt the majority of the large and dangerous game, but there are quite a few documented exceptions to this general pattern. A study done on the Aeta people of the Philippines states: “About 85% of Philippine Aeta women hunt, and they hunt the same quarry as men. Aeta women hunt in groups and with dogs, and have a 31% success rate as opposed to 17% for men. Their rates are even better when they combine forces with men: mixed hunting groups have a full 41% success rate among the Aeta.”[17]

It was also found among the Ju’/hoansi people of Namibia that women helped the men during hunting by helping them track down quarry.[21] Moreover, recent archaeological research done by the anthropologist and archaeologist Steven Kuhn from the University of Arizona suggests that the sexual division of labor did not exist prior to the Upper Paleolithic and developed relatively recently in human history. The sexual division of labor may have arisen to allow humans to acquire food and other resources more efficiently.[22] It would, therefore, be an over-generalization to say that men always hunt and women always gather. It is more of a relatively recent human “invention” that by increasing efficiency was beneficial to both sexes.

We assume a lot regarding gender differences because, as the study I linked to earlier states, we like to classify things according to rigid dichotomies–even when such dichotomies are not categorically essential, we like to think of them as such. What that study attempts to show is not so much that men and woman are identical, but that when it comes to gender (and particularly with regard to how men and women think, the psychology of men and women), there is no essential or categorical difference between men and woman across the gender spectrum. Again, gender is dimensional, but sex is categorical.
This isn’t some “construct” - this is, at the root, how we are, as evidenced by the presence of this labor division across all historic (and pre-historic) cultures until recently.
Sociology and anthropology suggest that you are incorrect here.

(Oh. And I forgot to mention: biogeneticsocioenvironmental! I made them one word. Can I do that? 😉 I don’t meant to tease, but I love the idea of buzzword bingo–particularly the alliteration. I was thinking–with inspiration from this thread–that Buzzbabble Bingo might be even better…it scans well and is even more alliterative(!) but there’s something about it I don’t quite like…maybe it hits the nail too much on the head and lacks subtlety with an over-implied judgmentalism. I don’t know…)

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
 
Epan,

I have also noticed your moniker used to say Methodist and you have in the past been radically pro-Homosexual.
What does that have to do with my post?

“radically pro-homosexual” is that supposed to be some sort of bizarre personal attack, which makes sense only in your own mind? If I am a radical, then I shudder to think what century people might think of your thinking as belonging to.

I will admit to leaning toward libertarianism, and to be concerned for social justice.

When I see absurdity, I call it out, regardless of ideology. Looking at some of your posts, I can see why you might object to that habit, and call it radical perhaps. Is that where you are getting the idea of radicalism? That we disagree?
 
Since marriage is **no longer tied to **the production of children
Interesting… considering as you say that that we do not allow incestuous marriages primarily because of its association with child-rearing.

Setting aside “outraging public morality” as a quaint anachronism, that is.
 
Grace & Peace!

This isn’t quite the case, Monkey–there are things at which men will be better than women and* vice versa* by virtue of their biology and these, yes, may go on to inform understandings and constructions of gender, but when it comes to the idea that rigid and deterministic constructions of gender are universal, even or especially among hunter-gatherer tribespeople, there’s not a lot of evidence. A quick google of tribes in which women hunt should provide a lot of reading on the topic, including this from the ever-helpful and ubiquitous Wikipedia:

A vast amount of ethnographic and archaeological evidence demonstrates that the sexual division of labor in which men hunt and women gather wild fruits and vegetables is an uncommon phenomenon among hunter-gatherers worldwide. Although most of the gathering is usually done by women, a society in which men completely abstained from gathering easily available plants has yet to be found. Generally women hunt the majority of the small game while men hunt the majority of the large and dangerous game, but there are quite a few documented exceptions to this general pattern. A study done on the Aeta people of the Philippines states: “About 85% of Philippine Aeta women hunt, and they hunt the same quarry as men. Aeta women hunt in groups and with dogs, and have a 31% success rate as opposed to 17% for men. Their rates are even better when they combine forces with men: mixed hunting groups have a full 41% success rate among the Aeta.”[17]

It was also found among the Ju’/hoansi people of Namibia that women helped the men during hunting by helping them track down quarry.[21] Moreover, recent archaeological research done by the anthropologist and archaeologist Steven Kuhn from the University of Arizona suggests that the sexual division of labor did not exist prior to the Upper Paleolithic and developed relatively recently in human history. The sexual division of labor may have arisen to allow humans to acquire food and other resources more efficiently.[22] It would, therefore, be an over-generalization to say that men always hunt and women always gather. It is more of a relatively recent human “invention” that by increasing efficiency was beneficial to both sexes.

We assume a lot regarding gender differences because, as the study I linked to earlier states, we like to classify things according to rigid dichotomies–even when such dichotomies are not categorically essential, we like to think of them as such. What that study attempts to show is not so much that men and woman are identical, but that when it comes to gender (and particularly with regard to how men and women think, the psychology of men and women), there is no essential or categorical difference between men and woman across the gender spectrum. Again, gender is dimensional, but sex is categorical.

Sociology and anthropology suggest that you are incorrect here.

(Oh. And I forgot to mention: biogeneticsocioenvironmental! I made them one word. Can I do that? 😉 I don’t meant to tease, but I love the idea of buzzword bingo–particularly the alliteration. I was thinking–with inspiration from this thread–that Buzzbabble Bingo might be even better…it scans well and is even more alliterative(!) but there’s something about it I don’t quite like…maybe it hits the nail too much on the head and lacks subtlety with an over-implied judgmentalism. I don’t know…)

Under the Mercy,
Mark

All is Grace and Mercy! Deo Gratias!
Mark,

Then lets have a go with this one…
“There is considerable recent evidence to suggest that biology, including genetic or inborn hormonal factors, play a significant role in a person’s sexuality.”
Biogenetichormonalplaydeterminansignificantlyinsexualityintruthwestildon’tknow…

How is that for a word?
 
and once it is legal for gays to marry then it is time to stop discriminating against plural marriages and close blood relation marriages. Since marriage is no longer tied to the production of children then anyone who wishes to be married to take advantage of the perks the state offers should be allowed to marry.😃

If two lesbian women can marry then there is no logical reason why I can’t marry my mother.
Then a single person could marry themselves, and then file taxes married filing jointly? :hmmm:
 
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