Yes, she has pierced ears. She’s also told lies, and she’s had lustful thoughts, and she’s taken the Lord’s name in vain, and missed Mass and done a whole HOST of things which are Sins! Some of them, gasp, shock, horror! she did with full knowledge, full consent of the will and they were grave matter!
So have I. So have you. So has every single person on this board.
NEver said otherwise
The fact of the matter is so simple I am almost ashamed to type it - we are all sinners and we all sin. That is what Jesus died on the cross for, to redeem us. That is what He instituted the sacraments for.
YUP
So, to answer your unspoken question, do I think that she committed a sin in having her ears pierced? Yes. Does that make me love her any less? No. Does that mean I didn’t marry her because of this? No.
**See that is where you and I differ…I do not view her ear piercing as a sin. **
You appear to be operating under the mistaken idea that humans can’t or shouldn’t love sinners, or that I shouldn’t be able to point out that things which many people do are sins. Yeah, I can - it’s a spiritual work of mercy. Admonish the sinner. I expect the same from anyone else - I expect the same from her.
Not at all…what I dont like is someone telling me somehting is a sin when the Church is nuetral on the topic…hence this leads me to believe that getting a tattoo or having my ears pierced is not a sin…
Is it a sin? Yes.
Wrong…the Church has no stance /teachign either way…it is neutral on this topic…I have shown you numerous articles regarding this fact…
**Now if you are Jewish it is a sin…by the way

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Christ and the Church demand that we be perfect, and Christ and the Church recognize that we cannot be - so we have the Sacraments to bring us back. **YUP feel bad for that poor guy that is missing his leg/arm etc. he sure is not perfect **
A question was asked, which you and I answered. We came to different conclusions, and I said your decision-making process was flawed. You have yet to actually suggest that mine is wrong - all you have done is post the same articles which I have already discredited and said carry no weight in determining whether or not something is a sin.
Perhaps you should write our blessed Pope and get his final opinion on this matter…that way we can lay it to rest
You don’t like the idea of it being a Sin - perhaps because you have done it, and therefore don’t want it to be a Sin. I haven’t done it, but I know people who have. Do they regret it like women regret abortions or men reject womanizing? No - but do I think it is a Sin and will still separate you from God even by a tiny fraction?** I have done it …more than once…and have my ears pierced too…and not even when I went through RCIA and told my Priest about them did he have any issues with my tattoos or pierced ears…I was not forced to confess these things either…they where not a sin.**
As we have discovered, the Church has not ruled on this - so it becomes a matter of the conscience for the individual Christian.
EXACTLY…
I have posted my logic, I have yet to see yours - what I have seen is an emotional defence and a completely illogical and irrelevant comment about my wife.
The comment /question about your wife was to find out if you viewed tats and pierced ears as the same thing…sins…since the Lev. verse everyone likes to quote also applies to piercings…it was not meant as an insult
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