What is it particularly that is largely forgotten if you could be more specific? cause you mentioned several issues.
The idea of the dignitify of
work. The Protestant phrase is “idle hands are the devil’s workshop” but the Catholic idea is, roughly, that work is an essential part of our human nature and purpose. Some, like Opus Dei take it even further (sanctifying ordinary work). This is why I objected to your portrayal of the apostles as welfare dependents. It’s one thing to choose not to pursue a paycheck, another thing entirely to choose not to work.
(Remember, for most of human history, charity meant caring for widows and orphans.)
ok.So as I understand it,what you are saying is that the person who receives can somehow return it through some kind of work.
That’s just one example but I think it’s an important and relatively simple one. How hard would it be, realy, to require some form of labor of anyone accepting charity? (Now obviously there are some cases where that is impractical but we can certainly talk about most cases and allow for reasonable exceptions. But even the exceptions are probably rarer than people generally think.) Giving work is, in and of itself, a gift, though not always one that is appreciated.
If this is so,and I am following what you are saying,I have one question that I would ask myself. Am I desiring some kind of work in return because I believe it will enhance the person´s dignity or will it ease my mind from this feeling that some people are getting used and becoming lazy and I have something to teach?
I would say both and more. Conversely, giving to the able-bodied with no strings attached is a very poisonous gift.
In my heart,the purpose of my thoughts and actions is important to me and makes a difference,a big difference.The “what for”.Cause ultimately the first answer comes out of love and respect for our ultimate need( a desire that they feel included,loved,acknoledged ,heard,respected) and the latter comes from a desire to “correct” which puts me in a higher position,which is wrong in my eyes.
I would say that a good place to start is with Opus Dei. Maybe you won’t buy their extreme view of work, but you can at least see how a Catholic institution that values work looks a things.
And in saying this,I am not judging anyone,just sharing my convictions.
Cause if I think that it is about “them” and “us” separately and not about “we”,I am not going in the right direction.
This brings us back to the title of the thread. While I understand the desire for humility, if you take this on you cannot escape the fact that you are stepping into a teaching role. You are presuming that those trapped in poverty have something to learn from you. That is an uncomfortable thought for many.
Now obviously I don’t mean to suggest that we should judge them in the sense of questioning their holiness, I have repeatedly made that distinction starting in the OP.
But consider this: if you know something that the poor don’t and you keep to yourself are you not burying your talents?