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PS:needless to say,I hope you do not have to see this happen.
I think you put your finger on the root problem here. Lack fo self-discipline. I would suggest that staying in school is not a predictor of success because students learn anything important in their last years in high school but rather because it is an indicator of a minimal level of self-discipline. Similarly waiting until you are married to have children.So many are discouraged before starting or along the way.Role models have also shifted.And I want/have it “now” is a paradigm our parents and grandparents did not have to deal with.
I’m not nearly as impressed with public schools as you seem to be. It’s hard to imagine a bigger waste of charity than giving to public schools.I think that the standards of what the “minimum” is have raised dramatically.What a high school degree meant many years ago,now is nearly a doctorate.I have noticed also that whatever the “minimum target” is now,becomes unattainable for a huge amount of people. …It is. Yet if there is one thing I have experienced is that when public school starts to stumble,you will have the best indicator that middle class is at stake.It is the begginning of the downfall.
Sorry, no. If you are going to pay them “charity” for work, then it makes way more sense simply to hire them for the work and pay them a living wage. That’s called “a job.” Not “charity.”How hard would it be, realy, to require some form of labor of anyone accepting charity?
What I’m suggesting is that it is not a case of black and white but shades of gray.Sorry, no. If you are going to pay them “charity” for work, then it makes way more sense simply to hire them for the work and pay them a living wage. That’s called “a job.” Not “charity.”
If you want to exclude the able-bodied from receiving charity, and instead, ensure that they have jobs for which they are qualified, and pay them for that, I’m all for it.
Apprenticeships already exist, do they not?What I’m suggesting is that it is not a case of black and white but shades of gray.
It may be, for example, that someone is able bodied but that their work attitude and/or skill set is such that they cannot find gainful employment.
So instead of forcing them to one extreme or the other, either competing for a job in the market or taking handouts, one can easily devise in-between solutions that, for example, teach work without yet demanding results equal to the support given.
They do, but I think this practice has the potential to instill the wrong values. We have to take care of ourselves, and children need to be taught that we don’t get paid to take care of ourselves. Secondly, it makes children to be “employees” of the family who have to get paid to do their ordinary family duties, rather than members who freely contribute to the good of all.Parents often require their children to earn an allowance by doing chores. The relationship of work and allowance is entirely arbitrary, not a function of the value of their work, because the point is to teach something.
That is one option among many. Companies have their own selection criteria that may not fit with charitable needs and some laws are designed to discourage the practice.Apprenticeships already exist, do they not?
Whatever your opinion of the matter, it is an illustrative example.They do, but I think this practice has the potential to instill the wrong values.
More pertinent is whether adults need to be taught employment skills. Sadly, many do.…it makes children to be “employees” of the family…
Charities run on volunteer work; they don’t pay their regular people. Why would they pay the clients to “work” for them, while unpaid volunteers are doing the real work?Can charities assume such a role? I think they can.
This is what I have experienced.The place has to be cleaned,many other little things volunteers do are being done by volunteers and those persons whom the church assists together.and it is building together.Getting to know each other and much more.Charities run on volunteer work; they don’t pay their regular people. Why would they pay the clients to “work” for them, while unpaid volunteers are doing the real work?
(Also, charities don’t give out money to people, anyway. They distribute groceries and clothing, and provide housing of some kind, but they don’t give any cash directly to the clients.)
I would say that when the target is unattainable,it ends up being lack of hope. And it takes more than self discipline for this,in my opinion.Cause you orient your will towards a goal.When your goal becomes unrealistic,you loose hope.And hope si not sth you can obtain by repetition.I think you put your finger on the root problem here. Lack fo self-discipline. .
I would be cautious about any sugh generalization, charities come in all sorts. We already discussed one example of giving out money to people: giving change to panhandlers. Other examples include helping out a relative.Charities run on volunteer work; they don’t pay their regular people. Why would they pay the clients to “work” for them, while unpaid volunteers are doing the real work?
(Also, charities don’t give out money to people, anyway. They distribute groceries and clothing, and provide housing of some kind, but they don’t give any cash directly to the clients.)
Hope is an essential ingredient. But confidence can be built up by experience. That is one reason that a hard bifurcation between charitiy (given without strings) and employment (necessary net value of work over compensation) is a problem.I would say that when the target is unattainable,it ends up being lack of hope. And it takes more than self discipline for this,in my opinion.Cause you orient your will towards a goal.When your goal becomes unrealistic,you loose hope.And hope si not sth you can obtain by repetition.
tv.nationalreview.com/uncommonknowledge/post/?q=MGE5OTZmMWI3ZTE2MDhjYTg1NWMxNGU0YzNiMzY4Njg=If you were a guy [in 1963] and you were in your 30s and 40s, you either were working or you were looking for work, or you had better have a really good excuse like being completely, totally, physically incapacitated. If you were not working and not looking for work at that age group, you were a bum. Your parents would tell you that. Your siblings would tell you that. Your wife, if you had one would be appalled at it. That was all very simple then.
The hard bifurcation and the trap are clearly presented in the title of this thread,Bubba.Hope is an essential ingredient. But confidence can be built up by experience. That is one reason that a hard bifurcation between charitiy (given without strings) and employment (necessary net value of work over compensation) is a problem.
If, instead, you only provide those two extremes then little wonder that people get trapped.
So you subscribe to the view that the poor have steadily lost their work ethic due to a conspiracy among the rich?The hard bifurcation and the trap are clearly presented in the title of this thread,Bubba. Virtue is not the ball in a volley-ball game that comes and goes depending on statistics.Especially when one of the teams claims to own the ball and sets the rules.
So you subscribe to the view that the poor have steadily lost their work ethic due to a conspiracy among the rich?