I think you’re reading more into my question than I’m actually saying. My thinking goes like this: I fully understand that economy is perfectly legitimate, even through Catholic eyes, when understood as a way of loosening man-made Church laws because they cause an undue hardship (or even an obstacle to salvation) for this particular member of the faithful.
It would be similar to obtaining a dispensation in Catholic practice. I have in mind fasting. Orthodox fasting is quite strict. Someone goes to their priest and says, in effect, “I can’t do this”. Then the priest says “okay, so for right now, let’s find something you CAN do — it’ll be strict, but not as strict as the practice that is causing you a problem — and let’s work towards getting you to the point where you can do more in time”. The precise fasting guidelines are of ecclesiastical, not divine origin. Put another way, it is church teaching (whether Catholic or Orthodox) that we must fast, but the exact mechanics of this are up to the Church.
Another example would be mixed marriage. Traditionally, the Catholic Church doesn’t “allow” this, but she tolerates it, if the alternative would be that a weak Catholic would otherwise leave the Church, or if a person lives in an area where there are few eligible Catholic marriage partners. There has to be a dispensation. Though you never hear of it, a priest could very well say “the law is there for a reason — I know you love the Faith and would never leave it, so I don’t think you need to marry a non-Catholic, this is a big city (assuming it is) and there are many, many potential spouses for you”. This would even hold more true in a predominantly Catholic country such as Poland or the Philippines. If the disparity of cult law is never enforced, or has no possibility of ever being enforced, then why have it in the first place?
On the other hand, contraception is not a “law of the Church”. It is a moral teaching, and in the Catholic understanding, it is absolute. A Catholic priest (or a bishop, or the Pope himself) cannot allow “contraception if you absolutely, absolutely have to”, no more than can he can allow adultery, fornication, or masturbation. How, then, does an Orthodox priest (in concert with his bishop) give an “economy” on this? That is my question.