And if you were taking a medication for a chronic condition, say Methotrexate( very common and effective to treatment for rheumatoid arthritis, lupus and other autoimmune conditions) and that medication is known to absolutely cause birth defects(no maybes,might, it will in most cases,that is, if the child makes it to term, which it probably won’t because the drug also has a known side effect of causing spontaneous abortions (in fact it is used for that purpose in ectopic pregnancies), is contraception allowed, I mean other than the medication itself, which will probably result in spontaneous abortion.
This is not a drug you take for a while, but for years, maybe even the rest of your life-and it’s one of the safer drugs out there, and if you are lucky to find even one that works, keeps the disease under-control, and so you stay alive. …so don’t suggest investigating alternative medications.
Is a child born with a birth defect not worth having? My mom was born with a birth defect as a result of my grandmother’s taking medication for a very serious condition. I sure am glad she was born!
I have a real problem with “Never”, when I see God’s Salvation History one long procession of "I will do anything to save you, no matter how far you wander…all it takes is a broken and contrite heart and “I will find you; No, even better, I will be there with you, I’ve had it planned since the beginning” no matter how high or low or far or how long.
Yes, God will do anything to save you, but he won’t pretend you haven’t wandered when you have. Can you imagine telling a child it is perfectly safe to play in the middle of the street, or will you bring the child back to play on the grass?
Does anyone stop and think real people, investigating Catholicism, looking for “Catholic Answers” read these threads over and wonder if this is the Body of Christ or a religious intellectual gymnastics team.
Or, they might say, wow, there must really be something real here, if people are willing to go through all that to remain faithful.
and I know the importance of Church to Salvation, and it’s not just a “what’s in it for me” deal, but it all seems rather anticlimatic to what started with a Holy Woman the world waited thousands of years to be born, the brightest star in the sky, ever, Angel songs and "Fear not, I bring you good tidings of great joy…
this is not just a question to bait you with a far flung made up scenario. but minus a few details, is very real
Anticlimactic? We believe there is a prize in heaven beyond all compare for those who persevere. The key is to keep your eye on the prize.