To be honest, how many gays are like this? Sure, they’re are self-serving SJW-type activists who are gay and attention seeking. Are individual gay people allowed to have character flaws without it being thrown back to characterize all gay people?
I could say ‘I do not care about a business not selling a cake for a gay wedding’ and someone else could say ‘if only all gay people were like that’. But the fact, there are quite a few gay people who don’t care.
If you’re only source of information about gay people are these battles in the media which are created to generate clicks and attention, then you’re not going to have a nuanced view.