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happyseppy
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Valentin,i consider myself as conservative, though sometimes i dislike my attitude towards any issue, thinking " i must behave in more tough way".
now i have an issue, somebody helps.
my country is in eu, but with very high level of corruption. how much and why, it is not a time now to discuss. generally, one can do many things, if enough money are involved.
tomorrow my big daughter has an examination for driving licence. the teacher told her to " bring with her 75 eur " and will get the licence. otherwise she would not pass and that will cost her 500 eur for additional course. obviously, if we do not pay to him, the second option is most probably the result.
i told her - no way, we do not participate in the corruption. we try until you get the licence.
my conservative thinking told me that, i was firm with my daughter.
but, inside myself, the liberal started talking - which of the laws of God you think, you will violate, if you pay those 75 eur, make your daughter happy and save another 500 eur from the family budget.
it is easy to be conservative when i read the Bible, when i see obvious disruption of God’s decalog.
but not easy, when such " small cases " coming.
i even think, that i am not violating any part of the Decalog, but only because i have to give good example to my daughter, i have to reject such payment.
somebody to help…?
God Bless you for trying to stand strong in your faith in a difficult matter! Do what you believe is right. If you think that by waiting you can avoid doing wrong, do so. If it is crucial for your daughter to begin driving, is there anywhere else you can take her? Is it possible that at another time or place you will not be faced with the same situation?
It is hard to offer advice on your predicament, being unfamiliar with your culture, but I can offer a prayer and encouragement.
Peace,
Kelly