Are You Getting Frustrated with Fellow Catholics? Church Politics?

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What are you getting frustrated about? Feet washing? Bishops? Women servers? Communion in the hand?

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Faithful Catholics: Pray More and Complain Less,
A Message of Hope from Fr. William Moser


Dear Catholic Friend,

I am writing to you to give you a word of encouragement. So I would hope you take this in the fatherly way I want to address you, as one who is a priest of over 32 years and as spiritual director of dozens of people, a priest who very much has personal contact with many of the lay faithful and knows very well the deep concern – anxiety may be a better word – over the present situation in the Church. Take this as if I were in your presence, saying firmly and clearly and with great confidence: Be at peace! Pray more! Calm down and don’t lose heart!

Padre Pio is quoted as saying, “Pray, hope, and don’t worry!” I want to aim that especially at people who write those anxiety-filled blogs and articles at the Church’s present situation, but certainly to all the Catholic faithful who are confused, bemused, or just plain angry. I certainly understand your concern; in fact, I share it but my consideration as to what to do is different. I conclude that we should pray more and complain less; besides you might recall the words of Psalm 95 which we priests and religious who recite the Divine Office have the joy of choosing as the invitatory psalm in our daily recitation of the breviary; specifically the verse that says: “Forty years I endured that generation. I said, ‘They are a people whose hearts go astray and they do not know my ways.’ So I swore in My anger, ‘They shall not enter into My rest.’”

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What Are You Going to Do?**

Let’s not try our Lord’s patience, rather let’s take this as an opportunity to establish a firmer faith, a more secure hope and a deeper charity. After all, what are you going to do? Leave the Church?! Wouldn’t the Evil One then have the victory over your soul?

Think of it! Aren’t you one who loves that old title given to us at confirmation, “soldiers of Christ.” Well, then don’t walk off the field of battle. These are the times, I’m convinced, that St. Louis Marie de Montfort prophesied, the time of the great saints: “Towards, the end of the world . . . Almighty God and His holy mother are to raise up great saints who will surpass in holiness most other saints as much as the cedars of Lebanon tower above little shrubs.” (St. Louis Marie de Montfort, True Devotion to Mary, article 47). Take it a s a compliment that our father God finds you worthy of these times, that He finds you capable of great sanctity!

I write as one who gives direction to many souls and who is alarmed at the discouragement that has entered so many hearts. I hear it and see it a lot and I must confess that discouragement is not foreign to me, especially given the confusion spread even by those called to strengthen our faith. That being said, I want to tell you what I tell the souls entrusted to me: Pray more! Pray for an increase of faith, hope, and love and make it an apostolic prayer, said with missionary zeal for the sake of others. “Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, increase our faith, hope and love!” Not just once, but many times a day, pray this way and you will fulfill your duty as a good soldier of Christ.

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Hang in There Friends!**

I write this out of gratitude for all the Catholic faithful whose loyalty to Christ and His holy Church has inspired me throughout my life. Hang in there friends! Hang in there with greater faith, hope, and love. “The gates of Hell will not prevail!”

May holy Mary, the woman of great faith and mother of the Church, envelop you in Her most compassionate and immaculate heart. Peace!

Fr. William Moser

Courageous Priest
 
thank you so much for posting this. I am a convert from the Episcopal church of 7 1/2 years and these feel like challenging times.
 
:yup::bounce:

Thank you for sharing that blog post. I wish he were my priest, but I will heed his words. The glimmer of hope, its been 46 years since I was yanked out of the church, the tide is changing, may I be washed up onto better shores.
 
The problem with being a faithful soldier is when your fellow soldiers turn around and shoot you. I’ve seen in my lifetime enough Christians who scare off would be believers by their bad behavior. At this stage of my life, I tell myself, it is not important what others do, but what I do and leave it at that.
 
The problem with being a faithful soldier is when your fellow soldiers turn around and shoot you.
This is pretty much where I am as well…
At this stage of my life, I tell myself, it is not important what others do, but what I do and leave it at that.
…and this is my approach also. There’s nothing else I can do. I swim against the tide, so I’m not welcome. Hard to foster a spirit of community under these circumstances.

Love Courageous Priest, by the way.
 
This is pretty much where I am as well…and this is my approach also. There’s nothing else I can do. I swim against the tide, so I’m not welcome. Hard to foster a spirit of community under these circumstances.
Love Courageous Priest, by the way.
The problem with getting hurt by church members is that they use their position to solicit your trust, then whammo! This is worse than getting hoodwinked by normal folk who anyway are judged by their merits. I mean how can you distrust a pastor who makes such fine sermons, or a clergyman who wears a cassock?

The blow one gets from reeling from a breach of trust is incredible. By now, I tell myself it is MY fault if I choose not to be circumspect and even to believe lies. A special place in hell is reserved for those who lead the flock astray.
 
Fr. William Moser is right, though. One thing we can do, is pray.
 
The problem with getting hurt by church members is that they use their position to solicit your trust, then whammo! This is worse than getting hoodwinked by normal folk who anyway are judged by their merits. I mean how can you distrust a pastor who makes such fine sermons, or a clergyman who wears a cassock?

The blow one gets from reeling from a breach of trust is incredible. By now, I tell myself it is MY fault if I choose not to be circumspect and even to believe lies. A special place in hell is reserved for those who lead the flock astray.
My problems are mostly due to backstabbing by the laity, but I see your point.
 
A special place in hell is reserved for those who lead the flock astray.
If unintentional, Lord have mercy.
If through negligence, Lord have mercy.
If deliberate and out of spite, Lord have mercy.

But mostly, Lord have mercy, and let the souls led astray or abandoned judge.
 
Providentially, I just saw this.

John, thank you for posting it.
 
He is so right about so many that are discouraged. I think people are in overload mode.
60 years ago was so much easier and peaceful because we didn’t have access to the nastiness and so many ways to know evil and to spread it. So discouragement ranks in the top 10.

I also think he is right about prayer, but not so much prayer of petition but of meditation and contemplation. They calm a person down and help to sort out what is important and what is unimportant. If more would follow that what a difference it would make in their peace of mind. But it seems so few even know about these forms of prayer. And the devil constantly shouts that we don’t have the time…another discouragement.
 
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