Are you wearing a mask for Confession?

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Our priest sits in the sanctuary and the penitent kneels at the altar rail near the priest. Our priest doesn’t wear a mask but a few of the penitents do. The rest of us wait in the pews at the back of the church for our turn. Loud Gregorian Chant is played on a CD to drown out the voices of the priest and penitent.
 
At our cathedral, they’ve done a pretty good job with confession. They’re still hearing confessions twice a day, 6 days a week…but confessions are only heard in the atrium. You come in off the main street and go directly into the atrium. The priest is behind a screen. Only one penitent may enter at a time…others must wait outside on the steps.
Those going to Mass line up along the cathedral’s side entrance very far removed from the atrium area (though ironically you emerge directly where the old confessionals are that would have been used pre-Covid).
 
My parish has masked confessions in the reconciliation room (AKA “The Box”) on scheduled times. If you go by appointment and the weather permits it, you can also opt to have a mask-less, socially distanced walk outside instead.
 
Because our parish is small. All confessions are face to face so yes I’ll wear a mass.
 
Yes, masks for confession in a confessional at my parish, and have had zero issues with it. No problemo.
 
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When I went to confession the other week, the priest asked me to remove the mask: in a room, and seated over six feet apart. Before entering, my temperature was checked.
 
Yes and the priest was wearing one too. I am EO, confession is always done face to face and in the church (near Altar) so this time around there was a little louder talk. I don’t mind if others can hear me the problem is within me not what others think of me… not sure if this thought is meek or proud but this is how I feel about being judged in the church.
What bothered me was the Absolution that happened without the priest touching me at all, there was no putting the Cross on my head not me kissing it. Deep.inside I felt.as childish as I usually feel after Confession, light and happy, but I did miss the entire ritual.
Idk did the Church change rituals after each pandemic for the past 2000 yrs or ok let us say 1600 yrs, after St. Constatine gave the Church social status? I understand the fear or disease (even worse than fear of death because this disease can leave you scarred and nobody wants that) but I also fear that the rituals change too fast lately and we try to fill.in any corner with cleaning solution and there is no place left for God to show us anything we haven’t properly measured before. Like we don’t like His surprises anymore…which is not ok with me really… 😶
 
But the screen is only between the priest and penitent, not penitent and other penitents, if you see what I mean, so there’s no sound barrier preserving the seal of the confessional.
This sounds like a clear violation of the seal of the confessional, and should never be permitted. Have you spoken to your priest about this? If he isn’t willing to correct it, the bishop may have to intervene. The seal needs to be protected at all times, and there are other ways of protecting folks from the virus without violating the seal.

If nothing is done, I would suggest going to confession at a different parish, where the seal is upheld and properly guarded.
 
The coronavirus is kind of under control where I live, so I don´t wear masks except for in public spaces with a lot of people.

My parish priest doesn´t make use of the confessional due to the pandemic, but he sits in the adoration chapel by himself before daily Mass so that people may go to confession. Personally, I prefer the confessional, but I think this is a good solution and thus it makes it easier to keep distance.
 
We have confessions in the classrooms outside the church so the air ventilates much better than in a small confessional. The line is outside. Most people don’t wear masks, neither do the priests. We always have a screen, I don’t even know if face to face is allowed in EF? I’ve never seen it.
 
The Extraordinary Form refers to Mass. It has nothing to do with confession.
 
Right but all the sacraments are celebrated according to 1962 rubrics. For example, absolution is in Latin.
 
Ours are actually being held outside. They have a couple of guys directing traffic, so to speak. The priests are just inside the doors to the parish center, with an opaque screen in the doorway. There’s an awning on the buildings so in bad weather people won’t be in it. The guys directing traffic keep everyone from approaching near the priest until the current penitent leaves, so there’s no danger of being overheard. I haven’t worn a mask because I can’t make myself understood with it, but we’re marked 6 feet back and there’s a barrier.
 
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But the screen is only between the priest and penitent, not penitent and other penitents, if you see what I mean, so there’s no sound barrier preserving the seal of the confessional.
This sounds like a clear violation of the seal of the confessional, and should never be permitted. Have you spoken to your priest about this? If he isn’t willing to correct it, the bishop may have to intervene. The seal needs to be protected at all times, and there are other ways of protecting folks from the virus without violating the seal.

If nothing is done, I would suggest going to confession at a different parish, where the seal is upheld and properly guarded.
I can understand how this could be awkward and uncomfortable, but how is this a violation of the seal of confession? There is nothing against somebody seeing you go to confession and it is possible to keep voices low so that they cannot be heard. Even if they could be overheard, it is also possible to be overheard from a confessional.
 
While it’s possible to be overheard from a confessional, every effort is usually made to prevent that. There is a wall and a door separating the priest and the penitent from others waiting outside, and these barriers tend to muffle the sounds of the voices. The priest inside of a confessional tries to keep his voice down, and if the penitent speaks loud enough to be overheard, that doesn’t break the seal, as the seal is on the priest, not the penitent.

With the arrangement being described here, those waiting to confess are in the same open space as the priest and penitent. There are no walls or doors separating them, and it’s much easier for those waiting to overhear the confession. No real effort is being made to prevent that.

Even with the music playing that is supposed to mask the voices, as the OP has pointed out, it often stops playing during the confession, and there’s a delay in restoring it. They don’t position the CD player to create a true sound barrier between the confessions and the waiting penitents, and it’s still quite possible for others to hear the confessions.

There is an obligation to make a good faith effort to protect the seal, and I don’t see a good faith effort being made here, from what the OP has described.

Moreover, the OP has complained about this improper confession practice, and it has fallen on deaf ears.

There are ways to protect folks from the virus without violating the fundamental rights of the penitents to have their confessions kept private, and the sacred trust that is supposed to be maintained between priest and penitent – and God. It is being assumed, or hoped that waiting penitents can’t hear these confessions, but simply assuming or hoping it isn’t any guarantee it can’t happen. This sounds quite disrespectful, to me, and it also appears that this priest doesn’t care.
 
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Our priest sits in the sanctuary and the penitent kneels at the altar rail near the priest.
My late mother said that when she was growing up her priest had a chair behind the altar. You knelt before the priest and made your confession that way. (Obviously, they don’t do that anymore b/c it’s a latinization.)
 
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