Does she have any family portraits? A photo album? Does she ever go to museums? Does she paint, or take photographs herself?
It’s almost 4th of July and probably PBS will have A Capitol Fourth with fireworks from the Rotunda etc, with the Washington Monument and the Lincoln Monument.
Now, when people put their hands over their hearts and look at the Flag and sing the Star Spangled Banner, does she think they are worshiping the flag?
When she looks at the statue of Lincoln, does she think the tourists coming by are worshiping him?
At her church when people stand up when the Bible is read, are they worshiping the Bible?
Is there a cross in her church? Do people worship it?
Statues are things that are images. A statue can be an image of a person, a thing, even a ‘concept’. But nobody thinks the statue of Lincoln IS Lincoln. Nobody thinks a statue of “Jesus the Good Shepherd” IS ‘Jesus the Good Shepherd’ Himself.
Catholics don’t attribute salvation to a statue, or even treat it like a slot machine, “I’ll give you a candle, you give me good health” (although people sure treat things like medicine that way even if they don’t actually give good health!
They sit there and maybe, since Jesus isn’t physically in full visible body ‘in front of us’ but we know He is all around us and we can ‘see’ that little statue to help us think of Him more clearly, we bow our heads, not to a plaster statue but to the Jesus who IS, and we pray to HIM, and then we walk away, knowing He is with us.
I don’t know if it will help–I’m sure that as a Catholic I find it just as difficult to imagine somebody having trouble with the idea of a plaster statue being an ‘idol’ when a picture of my departed father is not, as they do with the idea of ‘catholics and statues’–but maybe it will.
If we DID ‘worship statues’, we’d dang well come out, say it, and defend it, just as we do with other things. Catholics don’t wimp back and say< “Well, we think the Eucharist is symbolic really” because we DON’T think that, even though a lot of non-Catholics think it.
So you can take our word for it. We really DO think the Eucharist is the body and blood, soul and divinity of Jesus.
We really DO think statues are plaster things, not God, not ‘the people themselves’, but just ‘visual aids to prayer’. Like stained glass windows or looking at a Cross and imaging Jesus’ sacrifice.