Ashamed...but grateful for Blessing!

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joandarc2008 said:
And may your fiance make lots of trips out for ice cream at 3am for you…
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LOL I don’t know about that, hehehe…I am not having weird cravings right now, so we’ll see how that goes…With my daughter I used to crave ice cream dipped french fries the funny thing is that she loves those even now she’s 11…lol… 🤷

He was extremely helpful for me yesterday…When I got home he let me nap, he cleaned up the house, and made snacks for everyone, he made sure everyone was a bit quiet and excitement in their rooms more than running around in the living room where I was sleeping, he was willing to do all this after work! I thought that was really nice of him…Then dinner my daughter helped me make it and they all went to bed at a decent time without me yelling at them…GOD I hope they continue to behave!! LOL So it was nice having a hand around the house…And I hope my fiance continues having patience with me! 😃 I know lately I’ve been really moody too moody and too out of it! Extremely exhausted out of nothing but hopefully this will pass soon! 🙂 Just terrified about the swine flu doctor’s scared the **** out of me telling me if I caught I was going to die! 😦 GOD help me…GOD forbid you know?!

I was wondering when do you think will be a good time to tell his parents? Even though they want nothing to do with me? Or him…I forgot to tell everyone they called him and because he was working and didn’t answer they left the most rude message to their son… He barely started working so he’s spending money he doesn’t have on gas, you know? To and from work and then visiting me and all and well now the extra help needed for me and my “laziness!” Extremely tired… So they even left him a rude message on his facebook page, and the xbox live…he was like what is their problem? What do I look like money grows on trees? They live on the other side of town about 25 mins away, seriously on the opposite side of the city country side… So he’s like that’s an extra amount of miles on the car and gas and I work 20 mins from here…I don’t have the time nor money right now… So he wrote to them on the facebook page “working will be there as soon as I can” I thought thank goodness it wasn’t rude…I know he snaps back at them for the way they’ve been treating me and him…AND I don’t like it but they are his parents not mine… They haven’t written since…

When do you think would be a good time to let our families know? I go for the 6 week ultrasound in 2 weeks…I am nervous and excited…I am definitely trying to make the best out of everything… Thank you all for your support…GOD bless.
 
iluvmybabies said:
LOL I don’t know about that, hehehe…I am not having weird cravings right now, so we’ll see how that goes…With my daughter I used to crave ice cream dipped french fries the funny thing is that she loves those even now she’s 11…lol… 🤷

He was extremely helpful for me yesterday…When I got home he let me nap, he cleaned up the house, and made snacks for everyone, he made sure everyone was a bit quiet and excitement in their rooms more than running around in the living room where I was sleeping, he was willing to do all this after work! I thought that was really nice of him…Then dinner my daughter helped me make it and they all went to bed at a decent time without me yelling at them…GOD I hope they continue to behave!! LOL So it was nice having a hand around the house…And I hope my fiance continues having patience with me! 😃 I know lately I’ve been really moody too moody and too out of it! Extremely exhausted out of nothing but hopefully this will pass soon! 🙂 Just terrified about the swine flu doctor’s scared the **** out of me telling me if I caught I was going to die! 😦 GOD help me…GOD forbid you know?!

I was wondering when do you think will be a good time to tell his parents? Even though they want nothing to do with me? Or him…I forgot to tell everyone they called him and because he was working and didn’t answer they left the most rude message to their son… He barely started working so he’s spending money he doesn’t have on gas, you know? To and from work and then visiting me and all and well now the extra help needed for me and my “laziness!” Extremely tired… So they even left him a rude message on his facebook page, and the xbox live…he was like what is their problem? What do I look like money grows on trees? They live on the other side of town about 25 mins away, seriously on the opposite side of the city country side… So he’s like that’s an extra amount of miles on the car and gas and I work 20 mins from here…I don’t have the time nor money right now… So he wrote to them on the facebook page “working will be there as soon as I can” I thought thank goodness it wasn’t rude…I know he snaps back at them for the way they’ve been treating me and him…AND I don’t like it but they are his parents not mine… They haven’t written since…

When do you think would be a good time to let our families know? I go for the 6 week ultrasound in 2 weeks…I am nervous and excited…I am definitely trying to make the best out of everything… Thank you all for your support…GOD bless.
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*Hey prego! 😃 CONGRATULATIONS!!! I know it is not how you planned, but the best things in life are usually not planned…ever notice that? I wish you so many well wishes, and God’s best for you and your fiance.

Question…why is his family mad at him, again? I can’t remember…I know you mentioned it in another thread…is it because he doesn’t visit much? Or because they don’t approve of you? What did your parents say about your pregnancy news? I hope your mom will not stress you out much! :hug1:*
 
whatevergirl said:
*Hey prego! 😃 CONGRATULATIONS!!! I know it is not how you planned, but the best things in life are usually not planned…ever notice that? I wish you so many well wishes, and God’s best for you and your fiance.

Question…why is his family mad at him, again? I can’t remember…I know you mentioned it in another thread…is it because he doesn’t visit much? Or because they don’t approve of you? What did your parents say about your pregnancy news? I hope your mom will not stress you out much! :hug1:*
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Hi Whatevergirl! Thank you! Yeah I don’t even want to really remember the circumstance behind the blessing! 😦 Just so embarrassing and shameful you know!!! 😦 🤷

But I am so grateful that I am actually able to have a BABY!! Thank you GOD! 😃

Uhm, remember his parents were mad because of an email I sent his mother?! And now she just wants to over power her son and fill him with guilt but instead she’s pushing him away because he is standing by me…No matter what his parents have said, he said “you did nothing wrong even if you did mean it as a bad thing it wasn’t a bad thing and nothing you said was wrong!!! They need to grow the f up and quit their c-r-a-p just because they want to be babies about everything doesn’t mean I am going to leave you!!! I love you and it’s their loss not mine!” Oh and because he doesn’t see them every day and because he doesn’t call them every day and because he’s not over there all the time…His mother is very controlling…Believe me! His father whom has never disrespected me did disrespect me over 3 apologies!!! Because of her…

Anyhow…I haven’t told my parents yet…I feel it’s kind of early in the pg no? I was curious though when do you think would be a good time to mention this? With Christmas coming and Thanksgiving and all I don’t want them to be worried or think I am going to need anything from them you know?

Also when do you think is a good time to let your boss know?! Don’t just wanna show up to work 5 months later belly showing and them tell me ARE YOU PG? and me saying SURPRISE!!! LOL 😦
 
Speaking of your boyfriend, the wise thing for him to do is to move back in with his mom and dad and save money to help support his child. Unless he has a 100K job, he cannot afford his own place, your house and to support a child.
 
kage_ar said:
Speaking of your boyfriend, the wise thing for him to do is to move back in with his mom and dad and save money to help support his child. Unless he has a 100K job, he cannot afford his own place, your house and to support a child.
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No he doesn’t have that kind of money…I am taking care of my kids and myself…He’s helping but I don’t ask him for much…Now with a baby on the way though not sure how things will go??? Kind of uhm, unsure… His parents will not take him back they won’t even speak to him let alone allow him to move back home…It’s a hard situation but I am hopefull things will work out well…for all of us…
 
I’d wait till the 3-month mark to tell anyone. That’s usually the end of the risky time. No use people knowing who didn’t need to know if God forbid things don’t go well with the baby.

As for the house… and his parents… they have other siblings to help. He doesn’t need to visit them every day for his daily dose of abuse. If affording two houses is too much, I really stress that once he’s fixed his house up you need to move up the wedding and move in together as a family. Or you and the kids move into the house and he finds a buddy to room with for a while till the wedding.
 
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