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Marie1234
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If anyone has any questions for a young engaged woman who is a cradle Catholic, ask away! 
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iluvmusic0225
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First of all, congrats on your engagement I have a question: How do you know you truly love your fiancee?
I have a question: How do you know you truly love your fiancee?
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Marie1234
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Thanks so much!First of all, congrats on your engagement
How do I know I truly love him? Well for many reasons. Firstly, I know I love him and am not just solely infatuated with him because I truly do want the best for him in every aspect of life and I will do my best to make sure he is happy and all his needs are met. I care more about his well-being than my own.
Secondly, I want to spend the rest of my life with him, have his children, grown old with him. I want to be there for him through thick and thin, and I know there will be a lot of thick times but I’m willing to trudge through them with my husband and God right next to me.
Thirdly, he is my perfect compliment. Our picture should be next to the definition of “soul mates” in the dictionary.
We believe in all the same things, we think the same way. We can talk for hours on end and still keep blabbing til we fall asleep. We trust each other and we talk about our fears, are heartaches, and our hopes for the future. We’re there to comfort each other.I truly do love him unconditionally and I am at peace with him. I believe God has brought us together. For these reasons and a million others ( I won’t bore you with the mushy details
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iluvmusic0225
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Wow Thats a good explanation One more question: Do you think if he believed in another faith (as in you were Catholic and he was Baptist), that it would change anything about your relationship? Or would you be willing to work things out between the two of you?
Thats a good explanation One more question: Do you think if he believed in another faith (as in you were Catholic and he was Baptist), that it would change anything about your relationship? Or would you be willing to work things out between the two of you?
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Marie1234
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Well he was Lutheran and has recently turned Catholic (he was looking into the faith before he met me). I would have still dated him if he stayed Lutheran. I would have asked him if we could raise our children Catholic, but I wouldn’t ever try to force him to convert. Becoming Catholic needs to be a personal, willful choice.Wow
Would it have changed our relationship if he was of a different faith? Well that depends on the situation I suppose. If he were a non-Christian and I still a Catholic, that would probably put some strain on our relationship. We probably wouldn’t discuss religion ever and frankly I don’t know how strong our relationship would be if we didn’t have Christ at the center.
If he were a Protestant I think our relationship would still be strong, but I would really miss being able to pray rosaries and going to Mass with him.
Yes, I think we’d work it out if we were of different Christian faiths, but I can’t say for sure how strong our relationship would be if we didn’t have the same or even similar core beliefs.
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iluvmusic0225
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Wow! There is a lot of wisdom in your words What made him choose to become Catholic?
What made him choose to become Catholic?
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Marie1234
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Aw thank you so much, you’re too kind.Wow! There is a lot of wisdom in your words
Well he looked into a few different faiths as a teen and young adult. He was Lutheran but was drawn to faiths with more history, ceremonies, and traditions, like Judaism and Catholicism.
He first looked into Judaism. He went to synagogues and shabbats, bar mitzvahs, he began learning Hebrew, etc. But he decided after a while for several reasons not to continue with the faith. He went back to Lutheranism, but then decided to look into Catholicism. He absolutely loves it. He told me once that he found God in Catholicism
He decided to turn Catholic this Easter and is hoping to maybe even become a deacon some day
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iluvmusic0225
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Wow, thats really great If you dont mind my asking, how old are y’all? (Yes, Im from Texas ) and when did you discover that you really did love your fiancee?
If you dont mind my asking, how old are y’all? (Yes, Im from Texas ) and when did you discover that you really did love your fiancee?
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Marie1234
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I just turned 23 a few weeks ago and he’s 24.Wow, thats really great
O boy, the first time I realized I loved him? It was pretty soon. Probably before we even started dating. I don’t remember the first moment exactly, it just snuck up on me and BAM we were in love hahaha it was all very fast
So iluvmusic, may I ask u a question? are you male or female? oh and how’s Texas
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iluvmusic0225
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Im a male. And texas is very hot Im hoping to get married one day My parents dont want me dating until Im out of college but I found someone who I am hoping to marry. We’re both waiting until Im done and have a job and can support a family to start dating officially, but until then, we’re kinda like “undeclared”. My biggest issue is that since my parents dont want me dating, we have to keep our relationship secret. And I dont like that. I do love her, but its just kind of like a torn feeling I get. Cuz I want to obey my parents but its kinda hard to be separated from my special other. Because I do love her. If I tell my parents about her, they’ll cut it off between us for good. Btw, she is Baptist. I got her interested in the faith just recently She doesnt understand much about Catholicism but is willing to listen to what I believe in. Im not going to stop loving her because of our religious differences but I really hope she realizes the truth in the Faith. Do you have any advice?
Im hoping to get married one day My parents dont want me dating until Im out of college but I found someone who I am hoping to marry. We’re both waiting until Im done and have a job and can support a family to start dating officially, but until then, we’re kinda like “undeclared”. My biggest issue is that since my parents dont want me dating, we have to keep our relationship secret. And I dont like that. I do love her, but its just kind of like a torn feeling I get. Cuz I want to obey my parents but its kinda hard to be separated from my special other. Because I do love her. If I tell my parents about her, they’ll cut it off between us for good. Btw, she is Baptist. I got her interested in the faith just recently She doesnt understand much about Catholicism but is willing to listen to what I believe in. Im not going to stop loving her because of our religious differences but I really hope she realizes the truth in the Faith. Do you have any advice?
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jimbaker
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what age/ grade were you when you went through confirmation, and was it more than just a ceremony?If anyone has any questions for a young engaged woman who is a cradle Catholic, ask away!
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beccasmiles89
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Congratulations on your engagement!!If anyone has any questions for a young engaged woman who is a cradle Catholic, ask away!
May I ask who your favorite saints are and why? I’m fairly new to the Catholic faith and will be starting RCIA in September. I love learning about the lives of the saints! Thank you!
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Marie1234
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Good for you that you’ve found love and are building a Christian-centered relationship with this girl! That’s wonderfulIm a male. And texas is very hot
Well I guess my first question is, how old are you? If you are under 18 it would be best for you to follow your parents wishes until you become of age. If you’re over 18 and are currently in college, I’d have to ask, are you still living under your parent’s roof? Because that can have a huge influence on your decision making process.
I would advise you to talk to your priest about this or someone who is Catholic and you know and trust a lot.
That’s wonderful news about your girlfriend showing interest in the Catholicism! I agree with you. You shouldn’t stop loving someone because they are a different faith, but be sure to work out any conflicts you two may have before you two think about marriage.
God Bless you both!
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Marie1234
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I was a Freshman in high school I believe. Well it was a traditional Roman Catholic Confirmation and then we had a family celebration afterwards.
I went to a Catholic high school so I didn’t have to attend CCD. I basically just showed up. I think I may have had to write a paper but I can’t remember.
I kinda regret not contemplating my confirmation process a little more deeply. I decided on my Saint very quickly, although I don’t regret my decision at all.
Saint Michael is awesome!
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Marie1234
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Aw thanks so much! And congrats on your entrance in the FaithCongratulations on your engagement!!
I hope you have a wonderful journey becoming a Catholic!Some of my favorite Saints…hmmm there are many!
Well of course Our Lady and Mother Mary
I think Saint Michael the Archangel is awesome! He’s my Confirmation Saint. I love the fact that he is so strong, bold, loyal to God and will defend him, his Church and his people against all evil and harm.I love Saint Joan of Arc for many of the same reasons. She’s brave, loyal, and she trusted in God even in her painful martyrdom. And she shows how strong women are
I admire St. Augustine of Hippo for his intelligence, wisdom, and his amazing conversion story; Saint Teresa of Avila for her mysticism and strong connection with God; Saint Cecilia the patron saint of music for her beautiful story and her painful martyrdom.
Saint Peter
Saint Padre Pio
Saint Thérèse of Lisieux
Saint Maria Goretti
Saint Monica of Hippo
Saint Mary Magdalene
And MANY more…
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iluvmusic0225
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Im actually 18 and I am just entering college. My girlfriend is still in high school so we couldnt actually get married even if we wanted to. Plus, yes, I still live in my parents house. I told my girlfriend we should wait until Im on my own to truly make it official. And about talking to someone - I really dont have anyone to talk to. My priest is there, but I’d feel uncomfortable telling him - I know I shouldnt feel that way but I do. I dont know who else to turn to.Good for you that you’ve found love and are building a Christian-centered relationship with this girl! That’s wonderful
Well I guess my first question is, how old are you? If you are under 18 it would be best for you to follow your parents wishes until you become of age. If you’re over 18 and are currently in college, I’d have to ask, are you still living under your parent’s roof? Because that can have a huge influence on your decision making process.
I would advise you to talk to your priest about this or someone who is Catholic and you know and trust a lot.
That’s wonderful news about your girlfriend showing interest in the Catholicism! I agree with you. You shouldn’t stop loving someone because they are a different faith, but be sure to work out any conflicts you two may have before you two think about marriage.
God Bless you both!
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Marie1234
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Well maybe you could talk to your girlfriend about it? Do you have any relatives you could talk about this to as well?Im actually 18 and I am just entering college. My girlfriend is still in high school so we couldnt actually get married even if we wanted to. Plus, yes, I still live in my parents house. I told my girlfriend we should wait until Im on my own to truly make it official. And about talking to someone - I really dont have anyone to talk to. My priest is there, but I’d feel uncomfortable telling him - I know I shouldnt feel that way but I do. I dont know who else to turn to.
I know it can be kind of uncomfortable talking to a priest about personal issues, but they can be very helpful.
If you don’t mind me asking, why won’t your parents let you date until you finish college?
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iluvmusic0225
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They want me to focus on my education because we arent rich. I understand their concern but I wish they would let me have a little more freedom. I feel like before I met her, I lacked communication with anyone. I felt so isolated from the rest of humanity. When I met her, we bonded immediately. I dont want to lose her but I dont know what to do.
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minkymurph
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To the OP - congratulations and I hope both of you will be very happy together.
Can I ask why you have invited people to ask you questions?
Can I ask why you have invited people to ask you questions?
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CDB1718
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When was the first time you recall being introduced to Eastern Catholicism?
Do you recall your initial response to Eastern Catholicism? Did it change, for the better or the worse, over time?
In what ways (if any) do you think Eastern Catholicism could have been better introduced to you as a cradle Catholic?
In what ways do you and your husband-to-be “breathe with both lungs” and hope to teach your children to do so?
How can Eastern Catholics support your family-in-the-making in doing so?
Do you recall your initial response to Eastern Catholicism? Did it change, for the better or the worse, over time?
In what ways (if any) do you think Eastern Catholicism could have been better introduced to you as a cradle Catholic?
In what ways do you and your husband-to-be “breathe with both lungs” and hope to teach your children to do so?
How can Eastern Catholics support your family-in-the-making in doing so?
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