There are sinners, broken people, and people who twist the commandments of God to suit their own heartless agendas in every religion, including Christianity. There are wonderful, peaceful, faithful people in every religion, including Islam. Unfortunately, the media likes to show us violence and rage, especially about people who are different from us. That’s why I think it’s important for people to actually talk to each other like we’re doing now.
When you say that you never read, hear, or see anything about Islam but hate, it’s good to keep in mind that somewhere in the world there is a person who has seen nothing of Christians but rage, hate, and oppression. Not because Christianity is a hateful religion, but because the media that surrounds that person shows them nothing but American pastors threatening to burn the Koran and people on the street saying that the US should just glass over the Middle East with nuclear weapons, French women being arrested for wearing hijab, and jokes about rubbing pork blood on bullets to shoot Muslim men with. In some cases, like the people I worked with in Iraq, they’ve actually experienced hardship at the hands of Christian foreigners. That’s not what Christianity is about, but that person likely doesn’t have any appreciable contact with Christians aside from what they see and read in the media. Likewise, most people who only see angry Muslims on TV or read about them don’t usually have a lot of contact with actual, real life Muslims or Islamic communities.
Having moved to the US shortly before 9/11 and having not really grown up around many Christians before that, it would have been extremely easy for me to have developed a really awful picture of Christians. Like, seriously, Texas was not the place to be as a Muslim girl starting to wear a hijab for the first time in the early Naughts. I was out in the yard one day and a guy with a Jesus fish bumper sticker screamed at me to get the towel off my head and threw a beer bottle at me from a moving car. But, my parents and my grandfather taught me to protect myself, but also to look past people’s bad behavior and have compassion anyway.
Behind every bad action there is a person who is hurting or afraid or twisted from the circumstances of their life and you don’t always know their situation. The same is true of people who have fallen into radical Islam. I worked in Iraq with radicalized minors for a little while when I was right out of college. My impression is that it has extremely little to do with religion and everything to do with feelings of social alienation, mental illness, violence, and trauma.
Islam teaches that Allah commands us to be merciful as He is merciful, and to have compassion for all other beings, not just Muslims. We’re command to help the poor, the sick, the old, the orphans, and the suffering, and to be just for God knows the best and worst of our actions and judges us accordingly. Some people do better at heeding that than others. So, not much different than Christians, really.