Hello,
The Mass I attend would be a NO Mass. When Communion comes people go up, get the Body (in the hand), and walk away chewing on it (about 85% skip the Blood). This happens in almost rapid fashion. I thought nothing of it for the most part as I am just learning and it was all I had ever seen.
I have been on
Youtube.com looking at videos of TLM and FSSP Masses as there is only one church around that I know of that offers the TLM (I can not yet go as I have RCIA obligations). I was watching an FSSP Mass and I was so blown away when I saw how they did Communion. The preparation was so detailed and so reverant. The people came up and on their knees took the Body (on the tongue) and did the Sign of the Cross and then remained in a kneel position for a few moments (obviously reflecting and respecting what they have just taken part in).
Perhaps it might help to review what should occur and what often does occur.
One of the things that seems to skew the observation is that if people are receiving standing, there seems to be a constant movement and it appears to be going very fast. It also appears that people kneeling at a rail are there for a much longer time.
However, lets go through step by step time-wise as the priest and the recipient are facing each other.
Standing: properly done, the person who is about to receive steps up to the priest and then bows (unlike what almost everyone does, which is to bow to the back of the one in front of them, or for the more rare person, to genuflect while the person in front is receiving). The bow is supposed to be to the Eucharist, not to a person’s back.
So, steping up and making a bow is going to take about 2 seconds. Then (an not while the person is bowing), whoever is distributing the Eucharist says “Body of Christ” and waits for the response. The response is “Amen”. That takes about another 2 seconds. The recipeint then extends their hands, or opens their mouth and sticks out their tongue, and the Host is placed on it; they then place it in their mouth or retract their tongue. Another two to three seconds. They then move on (to receive from the Cup, or not; if receiving from the cup, it takes perhaps a second or two more becasue of transfer of the Cup).
So, let’s look at receiving during the EF. The priest stops in front and recites the short latin phrase, while the recipient has their head back slightly and their tongue out: the priest then places the Host on the tongue and moves on. Time, about 2 seconds.
So the process of an individual receiving is actually about 3 to three and a half times longer in the OF than it is in the EF.
Puzzleannie also pointed out that it depended on the parish as to what the protocol actually was in terms of getting to and from the Communion rail. It may be the Mass you saw on television had them lingering much longer than what I have seen elswhere. Depending on whether there is one or two priests distributing, one may ahve time on one half of the rail to kneel and contemplate; if two priests are distributing, you had best get up pronto as you will hold up the whole process if you do not.
Perception is an interesting thing. I happen to belong to a parish which has 24 hour Perpetual Adoration, so reverence is nowhere near the issue there that it may be elsewhere; I also attend at the local Trappist abbey, which has its own, slower pace tot he whole Mass (including Communion). I also occasionally attend Mass at a Dominican parish, OF but receiving at the rail, and I can say that it is more hurried than standing and receiving in terms of the time I and the priest are facing each other. How do I know? Because I ahve seen this issue elsewhere, and it made me more observant of what was going on.
When I take my first Communion on Easter Vigil I fully intend on maximizing my reverance to Christ and I dont want to be pushed aside or asked to move along while doing it.
And you should receive reverently. Welcome to the Church!
You should also be catechized on both forms of reception. Receiving on the tongue is the universal norm, and receiving in the hand is by indult. You should be able to make your choice without having to justify it to anyone.