Tis_Bearself
Patron
If you are a minor, then you need to accept that your family is not going to do everything your way, and as long as you’re not suffering serious abuse or neglect you need to put up with it until such time as you’re an adult and can move out and do things your way.
If you are an adult, and don’t like how your family does things, then you can move out, limit your time with them, etc. and seek out people who are more in tune with yourself.
In either case, when you are spending family time you often need to make sacrifices for the good of the other person. As Catholics we are called to do this. What you’re describing is a minor difference of opinion. You can offer it up easily.
All this “But it’s not FAIR!” comes off as very childish. The world is not 100 percent fair. It wasn’t fair when Jesus got crucified for us either. Did he complain? No. Then you can surely put up with your small annoyance here.
If you are an adult, and don’t like how your family does things, then you can move out, limit your time with them, etc. and seek out people who are more in tune with yourself.
In either case, when you are spending family time you often need to make sacrifices for the good of the other person. As Catholics we are called to do this. What you’re describing is a minor difference of opinion. You can offer it up easily.
All this “But it’s not FAIR!” comes off as very childish. The world is not 100 percent fair. It wasn’t fair when Jesus got crucified for us either. Did he complain? No. Then you can surely put up with your small annoyance here.