Your argument seems to be that this passage below is fulfilled exactly as You understand it, and that since Jesus said it, it must be more true than if He had not.
**John 16:32
**“The hour is coming, indeed it has come, when you will be scattered,
every man to his home, and will leave
me alone; yet I am not alone, for the Father is with me.”
Protestants have the problem of putting Jesus words in red. Catholics on the other hand view all of sacred scripture as infallibly true – when the teaching is correctly understood - because it is all the Word of God.
Words like “everyone,” “every man,” or “all” can be understood in an absolute sense, but with the Bible this is clearly not always the case. See
Romans 3:23
“since
all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God”
defendingthebride.com/ma2/all.html
Similarly the word “alone” may or may not be used here in an absolute sense. You trust your private interpretation. I trust the teachings of the Catholic Church who has not ruled on this matter. Also see below how Jesus’ own words are not to be understood in an absolute sense.
**Matthew 27:46
“Jesus cried out in a loud voice, ‘Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?’ which means, ‘My God, my God, why have you forsaken me ?’ ”
NAB
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defendingthebride.com/je/forsaken.html
http://www.defendingthebride.com/je/forsaken.html
Matthew 23: 9
“And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven.”
defendingthebride.com/ch/call.html
http://www.defendingthebride.com/ch/call.html
Putting our trust into the “obvious meaning” of the text has its problems. See
**“For as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the whale, so will the Son of man
be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth.”
defendingthebride.com/mc/sa/three.html
Looking at what the Bible says when all the other disciples did flee seems to strongly suggest that John did not.
John 18:3-16
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“So Judas, procuring a band of soldiers and some officers from the chief priests and the Pharisees, went there with lanterns and torches and weapons. 4 Then Jesus, knowing all that was to befall him, came forward and said to them, “Whom do you seek?” 5 They answered him, “Jesus of Nazareth.” Jesus said to them, “I am he.” Judas, who …
12 So the band of soldiers and their captain and the officers of the Jews seized Jesus and bound him. 13 First they led him to Annas; for he was the father-in-law of Caiaphas, who was high priest that year. 14 It was Caiaphas who had given counsel to the Jews that it was expedient that one man should die for the people.
15 Simon Peter followed Jesus, and so did another disciple.**As this disciple was known to the high priest, he entered the court of the high priest along with Jesus, 16 while Peter stood outside at the door. So the other disciple, who was known to the high priest, went out and spoke to the maid who kept the door, and brought Peter in.””
After the fleeing, John is still there with Jesus, and then in the next chapter we still find John with Jesus.
**John 19:26
**“When Jesus saw his mother, and the
disciple whom he loved standing
near, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” 27 Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.”
When the interpretation can go either way, I purposely choose not to accuse, and especially not to accuse Saint John who obviously had a high place as declared by Jesus to be given the singular honor of caring for Jesus’ mother, BVM.
You on the other hand, based on your private interpretation – of the “obvious meaning” of the text – do choose to accuse St. John.
What does the Church say on this ?
She has not ruled infallibly on this issue, but the evidence so far rules in Della’s favor against you.