No it isn’t. The act of giving for every christian should be an act of love, so whether we love God first, does not deflect from the love we have for our neighbor.
Yeah, but your primary motive would be for god not for person. You perform the act because god commands you to.
You are creating a false dichotomy.
I was only trying to demonstrate the different motives of charity between atheism and christiantiy.
In fact, I would argue that my love for God (if truly felt and practiced) would make me love my neighbor more than most because God is the source of love. It is important to note that apart from how an act should be performed God teaches us to give of ourselves selflessly to others (in fact, this is why we were created (Ephesians 2: 8-10). In other words, we are to make a “career” of helping others. You will not find the likes of a Blessed Mother Theresa, even amongst the most giving of Atheists. And if you can find such a person, please give me his or her name so I can commend them for doing God’s will.

but then it won’t be god’s will if it’s an atheist doing it
The fact remains that the motivation is still due to god’s will and as a result of his instruction to his followers.
Atheists (or secular) charities may not be as overly visible as Christian organizations are, but they are there.
Here’s a fairly list of comprehensive secular charities and I’m sure you’ll recognize some manes on there:
Secular Charities and Aid groups:
American Red Cross
American Civil Liberties Union
United Nations Children’s Fund
Doctors without Borders
Amnesty International
Oxfam International
The Nature Conservancy
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The Union of Concerned Scientists
Population Connection
DefCon: Campaign to Defend the Constitution
The SEED foundation
Project Peanut Butter
Electronic Frontiers Foundation
Mercy corps
Seva
International Peace Institute
Issue-Specific Secularist Organizations
Anti-Discrimination
The ADSN Project.
Southern Poverty Law Center
The Alternatives to Marriage Project
Pro-choice organizations
Planned Parenthood Federation of America
NARAL Pro-choice America
Womens Health Organizations
EngenderHealth
Ipas
Teen Pregnancy Reduction
National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy
HIV/AIDS
Treatment Action Campaign
U.S. Military
Military Association of Atheists and Freethinkers
Gay rights
Lambda
Lambda Legal
Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation
Human Rights Campaign
School vouchers
National Education Association (NEA) on school vouchers
Pledge of Allegiance
Restore the Pledge
Evolution/Creationism in the science classroom
National Center for Science Education
Texas Freedom Network
Boy Scouts of America discrimination against atheists, gays
Scouting For All
Children in Poor countries
PlanUSA
Church/state separation and secularist organizations
Americans United for Separation of Church and State
American Civil Liberties Union
People for the American Way
Freedom from Religion Foundation
Godless Americans Political Action Committee
Atheist Alliance
Interfaith Alliance
American Atheists
Secular Coalition for America
Richard Dawkins Foundation for Reason and Science
Organizations that promote humanism/Atheism
Center For Inquiry
Council for Secular Humanism
American Humanist Association
The Continuum of Humanist Education
The Institute for Humanist Studies
British Humanist Association
Humanist Association of Canada
Positive Atheism
Unitarian Universalist Assocation
The Brights
The Objectivist Center
Skeptic Society
Committee for the Scientific Investigation of Claims of the Paranormal
American Ethical Union
International Humanist and Ethical Union