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bodhisagan
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Hi all. I’d like to weigh in on this one a little. Clearly the 60s brought about a lot of cultural upheaval. We have also had a lot of issues with “the family” etc. since then. However, it is my opinion that these things are wrongly 1) framed moralistically; treating the “new” culture as a whole instead of as parts and 2) comparing the 60s only to the two or three preceding decades and only in the US. Many of the conclusions that people come to are valid, but there are too many assumptions and there is too much isolation (argument from within a silo just here in the US etc.) Also little is asked of the validity of old statistics in light of the under reporting of various kinds of “taboo” crimes before the sexual revolution and lack of the infrastructure “back in the day” that actually looked at these things.But why did crime rates soar in the first place (because before the 60’s crime rates were low)?
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I would like to simply lay out a few random thoughts on the topic below.
- " The divorce rate" - I would argue that this has gone up more due to higher expectations among women, a greater voice for women (i.e. I don’t have to take this from you) and the two income dilemma than some kind of devaluation of marriage. Consumerism (money is a frequent cause of divorce) and mobility (thus people can start a new life without their spouse) have also contributed. Divorce is terrible to families, but I wouldn’t take away the progress women have made in the last 4 decades to fix it. Eliminate consumerism, de-romanticize marriage and one might find this issue is licked without going back to the “good ole days” looking for solutions.
- The" it was better way back when issue - and then we look at statistics from the 50’s to compare to today". A lot of demographic data would suggest that things haven’t always been so good in the past. Some argue that the cultural stability of that time (the fifties) was an anomaly in itself and should not be used to compare to today. I wish I still had my sources, but I spent a long time researching some of these demographic stats such as premarital pregnancy rates, marriage rates etc. back to the early modern period in which as much as a third of the new brides had a bun in the oven on their wedding day in the 17th century etc… Unwed mothers, unconventional families and the like were very common during the heady days of the Industrial Revolution as well.
- “The problems we have since the 60s are due to the cultural/sexual revolution…just look at how bad things are (or have been)” - This is mostly only true in the US. In countries where this revolution was embraced even more than in the US, at least in parts, they don’t have the crime etc. we do. Look to the EU and one sees a godless, yet relatively stable society. Looking at the US in a vacuum clouds things and begs the question “what is different between us and them?”. If they are even less “moral” than us, why do they seem to have “figured it out” (BTW I’m a practicing Catholic…GK of my local KofC council - not advocating Godlessness). Might it be the almighty dollar?
- “The way to fix it is to undo what was done in the 60s”- Let’s face it, that’s not going to happen. The other issue is, what do we keep and what don’t we keep and who decides? Clearly drugs and open promiscuity were bad and can be blamed for much that has gone wrong in the last several decades. I don’t think many really deny this. Mistakes were made by the boomers as they emerged and changed our culture and I think many of these mistakes are being slowly undone. I don’t think we need to throw out the baby with the bathwater. Things are much better now or potentially much better now for minorities (not just racial but religious and sexual as well as unwed mothers etc.) for women (technically not minorities), the handicapped (physically and mentally) and for anyone who would have been on the fringes of society in the past. Consumerism (one of Pope Benedict’s and Pope JP2’s pet peeves) and resurgent poverty among working people account for a lot of today’s ills.