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A brief background: I divorced my husband in the wake of finding out about multiple secret female friends and questionable relationships with them, mounting debt (up to his entire annual income; no explanation where it all went), and him taking my credit card after being expressly asked not to, without telling me, and surprising me with a debt in the thousands put on it in one month.
I run a small business online, a creative, artistic one, that, for three years, had gotten nothing but very high, glowing reviews. About the time the divorce was final, xh flew to the city where several of the women in question live, and shortly after, I got the first negative review ever–from one of these woman, with her name on it. Within 24 hours, there was a second equally negative review, from someone whose only reviews ever, were also posted that same day. Recently, xh has flown out there again and there’s another one. I haven’t read it, but the friend who did says it’s so nasty it borders on personal hate, and once again from someone with almost no other reviews on their account.
I don’t know for a fact, of course, that the 2nd and 3rd negative ones are personal attacks, but it seems from circumstances they might be.
I’m asking for prayers for my strength of mind in dealing with this–it’s incredibly discouraging, wondering if people hate my work that much, making it hard to carry on with what I do, despite the many glowing, flattering reviews and outpouring of love.
I’m feeling like I’m being re-victimized by my ex-husband (and his ‘girlfriends’), for finally standing up for myself against all the things he did to make it impossible to continue in a marriage, even though I gave him every chance in the world, for seven years, to stop what he was doing, and would have forgiven in a heartbeat and put it all behind if he would have just stopped.
I’m asking for prayers for a change of heart on the part of the woman who placed the first reviews, and for the truth to come out, if this is indeed all connected.
I’m asking for prayers that my business would not suffer as a result, as it is helping me support a large family.
Thank you. I know I’ve asked for prayers for this same thing before, and it’s come up again, with his recent trip there. Last time, I felt the peace from the many prayers. Thank you.
I run a small business online, a creative, artistic one, that, for three years, had gotten nothing but very high, glowing reviews. About the time the divorce was final, xh flew to the city where several of the women in question live, and shortly after, I got the first negative review ever–from one of these woman, with her name on it. Within 24 hours, there was a second equally negative review, from someone whose only reviews ever, were also posted that same day. Recently, xh has flown out there again and there’s another one. I haven’t read it, but the friend who did says it’s so nasty it borders on personal hate, and once again from someone with almost no other reviews on their account.
I don’t know for a fact, of course, that the 2nd and 3rd negative ones are personal attacks, but it seems from circumstances they might be.
I’m asking for prayers for my strength of mind in dealing with this–it’s incredibly discouraging, wondering if people hate my work that much, making it hard to carry on with what I do, despite the many glowing, flattering reviews and outpouring of love.
I’m feeling like I’m being re-victimized by my ex-husband (and his ‘girlfriends’), for finally standing up for myself against all the things he did to make it impossible to continue in a marriage, even though I gave him every chance in the world, for seven years, to stop what he was doing, and would have forgiven in a heartbeat and put it all behind if he would have just stopped.
I’m asking for prayers for a change of heart on the part of the woman who placed the first reviews, and for the truth to come out, if this is indeed all connected.
I’m asking for prayers that my business would not suffer as a result, as it is helping me support a large family.
Thank you. I know I’ve asked for prayers for this same thing before, and it’s come up again, with his recent trip there. Last time, I felt the peace from the many prayers. Thank you.