Attraction to woman in choir

[Elf01]

Seems like you have your start.

 

[anon8387311]

They are really really fantastically good (the Choir and Director)… I think I would stick out amongst them for the wrong reason, I’d probably my be years away from getting to perform at there standard and unlikely to be so when she performs also. Though it is a very very good Idea you’ve suggested actually

 

[goout]

@(name removed by moderator)

Ha ha. Can you recommend any clean, Catholic romance stories? I may need to live vicariously through one.

Generally speaking, the way love is found is not by trying to find it for yourself, or by experiencing it vicariously. As a man who struggles, trying to experience love vicariously does not lead to good places.
You find it by spending yourself on behalf of real people, and somehow it comes back around.

I grasped for it for a number of years, and then by immersing myself in activities with others it happened.
Join some parish ministries. Volunteer. Have normal everyday relationships. Be kind to people. Most (hopefully all?) women love kindness and a caring disposition.