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But in reality providentialism regarding family size is a fairly recent thing also and could be called a new theology. People traditionally did have big families in the past but that was in the context of lack of knowledge about fertility cycles. The idea of providence meant something different in that environment than it does now. For example, people coped with mulitple deaths of children due to disease in those days also and the idea of providence was Gods comfort and support for this situation. Some of the crazier providentialists now though reject the use of modern medicine… because they feel it is the Christian thing to leave our fate to providence! That’s not what providence meant or means! This is what the new ‘providentials’ are extrapolating from past experience in order to assume that leaving everything to providence is ‘the default’.
Planning your family based on your individual marriages vision for it by periodically abstaining from sexual intercourse based on fertility knowledge … or just ‘going for it’, is legitimate. Accepting children lovingly from God is the ideal. A theory that states that choosing not to plan your family is the ‘default’, reduces us to mere animals. Not co-creators with God.
False. It is quite evident in the Bible that fertility cycles were widely known. (Clean and unclean) This idea that women in the past did not know how babies were made is a misrepresentation of history. In fact, the argument could be made very well that people knew BETTER then than now. ABC has taken care of that for us and reduced it to am answer on a high school biology test. When I was in youth ministry many young people who asked questions about why the Church was against ABC and who were sexually active had no idea when one could get pregnant or what their cycle was. Many thought a period was ovulation.People traditionally did have big families in the past but that was in the context of lack of knowledge about fertility cycles.
That is speculation on what they thought. I’m sure comfort played a part in it but we don’t really know what the average person thought do we?The idea of providence meant something different in that environment than it does now. For example, people coped with mulitple deaths of children due to disease in those days also and the idea of providence was Gods comfort and support for this situation.
By calling people crazy for a religious belief you are smearing more than just Catholics who do not like NFP. And saying it is a new thing is not really accurate either. Perhaps you have head of the Amish and other religions who also shun medical treatment. Now, I have never met a Catholic who thought this.Some of the crazier providentialists now though reject the use of modern medicine… because they feel it is the Christian thing to leave our fate to providence! That’s not what providence meant or means! This is what the new ‘providentials’ are extrapolating from past experience in order to assume that leaving everything to providence is ‘the default’.
Planning your family based on your individual marriages vision for it by periodically abstaining from sexual intercourse based on fertility knowledge … or just ‘going for it’, is legitimate. Accepting children lovingly from God is the ideal. A theory that states that choosing not to plan your family is the ‘default’, reduces us to mere animals. Not co-creators with God
However sometimes the plan is for some marriages to not plan. That does not make them animals, but rather just have a different plan than you.