God bless you, Fr Dale, for making time for this forum with the faithful!
I am so glad that the dialogue on music has begun, initiated by Bishop Morlino’s letter to his diocese.
I am no spokesman for Bishop Morlino, I am just one of his flock. So I can only speculate on what Bishop Morlino might have had in mind in his letter.
But I DO live in Madison, and I can tell you that I really understand where the Bishop is coming from! …

Madison is a pretty secular place, full of highly educated people, a University town. It is pretty common here (what an understatement!) to see people adopting a relatively self-important and self-centered attitude which carries over into their participation in the Mass–
“I know it all”
“I will tell them how it should be done.”
“What’s in it for me?”
"Here I am, Lord (aren’t You lucky?)! …

“Any God worth His while would see things my way.”
We would never take that prideful and self-centered attitude anywhere else, and it’s particularly inappropriate during the Mass.
We don’t tell our doctors what to do or how to do it.
We don’t tell our architects what to do or how to do it.
For that matter, we do not enter the University classroom telling our professors what to do and how to do it.
We take a humble and cooperative attitude in all of those places, and we seek to learn from the experts.
That should particularly be true in the Church and during the Mass.
Your point about Christ-present-in-the-assembly is well taken, provided it is balanced with the REAL PRESENCE of Christ in the tabernacle and on the altar.
If the Queen, the President or even Brittany Spears is present at an event, we do not usually focus on ourselves. We focus on them.
During a graduation ceremony, we use suitable solemn music such as “Pomp and Circumstance,” not a Brittany Spears song.
So I am all for taking a humble posture when it comes to the Mass, and allowing the Church and the Bishops to teach us what is appropriate to use there. After all, the **Holy, Mighty and Immortal Creator of the Universe **is there on the altar, and quite frankly, some of the more casual recent observances and music do not always reflect that adequately.
I know that respect and awe for God is good. God is truly AWESOME.
I know that love of God, closeness to Him is good, even a certain familiarity is good.
I believe that we should look to the Church and to our Bishops to guide us to the appropriate balance in our attitudes.
In Madison, Bishop Morlino is very right in asking for a shift in emphasis. A shift is much needed here.
In other places, other Bishops might find that the balance is skewed in the other direction, and they have to work on loosening people up a bit.

… Oh, yes – your question about music in our Diocese –
The music is VERY variable, from parish to parish.
Our family does help with music, and is very involved.
I think that the key to the “goodness” of the music is not in the professional quality of the “performance,” but in choosing the suitability of particular pieces for the Mass. One organ or one piano and a congregation should be sufficient, provided hymns appropriate to the Mass are chosen. But which hymns should be chosen— that is what Bishop Morlino was addressing. The priest in each parish could give some guidance to the music leader or group regarding the hymns appropriate for each occasion. And the priest should get the guidance from his Bishop.
**In case it was not previously mentioned, not every hymn in the hymnal is appropriate for use during the Mass. ** …

…You are absolutely right about how irritable most of us get. We should try to keep our exasperation out of the dialogue, to help communication to go more smoothly. But I suppose the silver lining is that the exasperation shows that we are passionate about our Faith and about the Mass. In today’s gospel, we heard “So, because you are lukewarm, neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth.” Rev 3:1-6, 14-22. … So better hot than lukewarm! …
