I hope so. I want his best, so that I can help him see why he needs to come home.
OK, I’ve thought about it… here goes.
For the record, I was born and baptized RC, altar boy w/4 yrs attendance at daily Mass, Confirmed, attended a RC seminary for one year, then left religion completely for a time…still believed in God but wasn’t at all spiritually fulfilled in the RCC. All the questions I ever asked of priests were answered with variations of “have faith”. That didn’t cut it for me, so I stopped attending and claimed no religion at all for a number of years, nor was I actively seeking any replacement.
Forty-one years ago I was introduced to the Baha’i Faith by a coworker. Initially I wasn’t much interested, but I was intrigued enough to ask some questions that I’d never received satisfactory answers to. I was confident I would find some holes in this religion pretty quickly, and then I’d offer a polite “no thanks, not interested”. It didn’t exactly happen like I thought it would. The answers given not only made rational sense to me, further, while not avoiding discussing some miraculous events in the Faith, they were never offered as a ‘proof’ of its truth. After countless questions and answers, and much reading and soul-searching, I was assured in my being that Baha’u’llah was the Manifestation of God for this age, that His words were God’s words, and His instructions and laws were God’s Will…so, I declared my belief and became a Baha’i. That confirmation has only deepend over time.
My problems with RC theology (and the present day Christian understanding, in general) revolve around their belief that the ‘miracles’ depicted in the Bible were a ‘proof’ of the uniqueness of Jesus Christ. The symbols of ritual seemed more important than what they represented and what they were really teaching. Being expected to believe that the events depicted in Matthew 24, for example, were literally going to happen was a show-stopper for me. A literal, eternal burning hell, where most of those not in the ‘one true church’ were destined to end up. Limbo (I know, it’s now discarded but it wasn’t when I was a member) Purgatory (same flames-shorter duration (really?)) Literal trinity. One God, one truth, given at only one time in history meaning that every other faith tradition was way wide of the mark, and their followers in deep trouble. A literal Adam and Eve. Literal Tower of Babel. A physical resurrection with reanimated human corpses flying out of graves into the air, etc.
I could go on, but I think that’s sufficient. I find the Baha’i explanations most satisfying, in that they do not demand that I suspend my rational mind to try and believe things that I know are not possible. Being able to understand the spiritual meaning behind the outward events and symbols, along with the Holy Writings of the Faith, are satisfying spiritually and rationally to me.
I should let you know that a RC chapter and verse rebuttal using scripture or Church authority, along the lines of…“but this is what is says” won’t be too helpful…I already know what it says—I’ve read it and studied it, too—many, many, many times. I know what it says—I wanted to know what it means. I’m wasn’t willing to be a religious parrot, spitting-out canned CCD truths that made little sense to me. I applaud the moral teachings of the RCC, I mainly have problems with the eschatology. I have a God-given rational mind that needs reason, logic, spirituality and that most important ‘X’ factor that is not earned, is not even quantifiable, but is a gift from God.
Let me be absolutely clear that I have zero animus toward Catholics or the RCC. Don’t mean it to sound patronizing, but some of my best friends are Catholics.
These words of Abdu’l-Baha I agree with 100%:
“If religious beliefs and opinions are found contrary to the standards of science, they are mere superstitions and imaginations; for the antithesis of knowledge is ignorance, and the child of ignorance is superstition. Unquestionably there must be agreement between true religion and science. If a question be found contrary to reason, faith and belief in it are impossible, and there is no outcome but wavering and vacillation.”
“There are certain pillars which have been established as the unshakeable supports of the Faith of God. The mightiest of these is learning and the use of the mind, the expansion of consciousness, and insight into the realities of the universe and the hidden mysteries of Almighty God. To promote knowledge is thus an inescapable duty imposed on every one of the friends of God.”