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clem456
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And my John Thomas as well.Amen!Since the Pope is infallible re manners of faith and morals I believe this too,this is my hope for my baby Anne Catherine and all babies lost to abortion.
My confessor did something in the confessional that was probably outside of orthodoxy. He had me pick a name for my child and he then recited the words of baptism. Until that time I had gone to confession twice before for the same sin, and my confessions were focused on alleviating my own guilt. But…
Healing from abortion requires the complete acceptance of what really occurred, and acceptance of the awe-ful responsibility one bears to another human being. Just as it was easy to discard a human life through abortion, it was easy for me to look for healing by trying to alleviate my own guilt. There is a huge burden that is really hard to swallow…I helped kill a human being with cruelty and neglect toward the child and it’s mother. The failure to identify with my own child and face up to my responsibility kept me from healing. It’s an awful burden, I wouldn’t wish it on anyone, but if you are trying to heal, it’s the only way. It’s a blessing to be crushed with the realization of what you did.
Knowing that God has lifted my child up and cared for him when I refused to is a huge comfort, and this is where my comfort came from in the end, not from relief of guilt. My child lives fully with God, God’s love for him cannot be taken away no matter how negelectful his mother and I were.