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I certainly know what you’re talking about and we do need to prioritize the devotions we choose to practice.The problem is I don’t think I can have the time for the LOTH. Starting work at 8:00 and get off at 5:00, my job is pretty demanding. I just don’t see how to accommodate the requirement.
And . . .
At the same time, any suggestions?
I’m a business owner with 15 employees and I have 4 kids at home so time is always of the essence
- I pray Morning Prayer before anyone else in the house rises.
- After dropping the kids off in carpool at school, I “squeeze in” 20 minutes or so of Lectio/mental prayer prior to Mass. I still get to the office by 8:30am or so.
- If all goes well, my lunch hour is spent at adoration at a Church near my office. Most often I’ll do Midday Prayer here and this is also my primary time for mental prayer.
- Driving home after work, I stop by the chapel at our parish for Evening Prayer. Praying it before I get home is important since dinner time is so hectic. I want to be fully “there” for my family at that time and not feel like I need to run off for prayer the minute I walk in the front door.
- When things slow down latter in the evening and all the kid activities/homework are done, I’ll try to grab a few minutes for some spiritual reading. I usually don’t pray the full Office of Readings but this is usually a good time to read at least the 2nd reading. What a wonderful way to be introduced to our Saints!
- After every one goes to sleep at night, I end my day with Night Prayer . . . if I don’t fall asleep first

Sometimes I think people get scared by the term Liturgy of the Hours - for they think it is just that: Hours. Morning Prayer and Evening Prayer are the two “hinge” prayers so they are probably the most important. 10-15 minutes should easily be enough time for these. Daytime and Night Prayer are even shorter. And there’s no “requirement” to it unless obligated as a Priest/religious or third order.
If you ever feel drawn to it, just do what you can. For me at least, the LOTH has been absolutely wonderful to help me see my life and the days activities through “contemplative eyes.” This prayer, more than other devotions, helps me more easily slip into the interior silence that is so important for fostering contemplation.
Dave