Baptism of older child - godparents?

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I just entered the Church in August. The rest of my family - dh, dd 15, dd 12, and ds 10 will be coming in at Easter Vigil '08. My (will be) 10 year old ds has not been baptized, so he’s in RCIC, and will be baptized at Easter Vigil. Does he need godparents or is that something for infants/younger children only?

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Everyone being baptized – even adults – need a godparent/sponsor.

The Ask a Franciscan site at Americancatholic.org summarizes the requirements:

Canon 874, #1, of the present Code of Canon Law says that the person selected must:

• be appointed by the person to be baptized, his/her parents or the parish priest and be suitable for the role and have the intention of fulfilling it,

• be at least 16 years old unless the local bishop sets a different age or the parish priest considers that there is a just reason for an exception,

• be a Catholic, be confirmed and have made his/her First Communion and “lives a life of faith which befits the role to be undertaken,”

• not be under any canonical penalty, and

• not be the father or mother of the person who is to be baptized.

Canon 874, #2, indicates that at least one of the godparents must be a Catholic. In fact, only one godparent is required (Canon 873).

When there are two godparents, they need to be a man and a woman so that the newly baptized will have a role model for each gender. Should the original sponsors later turn out not to be good role models in Catholic faith, the best solution is to find better role models and involve them more closely in the baptized person’s life. Under some circumstances, paperwork at the parish where a Baptism is registered can be changed. Doing that, however, will change little unless better role models have already been identified.
 
Thank you! The rest of us are already baptized Christians, (Baptist background) he’s the only one who isn’t yet baptized so I wasn’t totally sure what the procedure was. Baptists don’t require a godparent. :o
 
I just entered the Church in August. The rest of my family - dh, dd 15, dd 12, and ds 10 will be coming in at Easter Vigil '08. My (will be) 10 year old ds has not been baptized, so he’s in RCIC, and will be baptized at Easter Vigil. Does he need godparents or is that something for infants/younger children only?

Thanks!
Your ten year old son will need at least one Godparent or one of each gender, your dh, dd 15, dd 12, and ds 10 will also each need a Sponsor which if they are in RCIA should already have assigned if they did not have one before beginning. They can ALL also have the same Sponsor/Godparent.
 
Your ten year old son will need at least one Godparent or one of each gender, your dh, dd 15, dd 12, and ds 10 will also each need a Sponsor which if they are in RCIA should already have assigned if they did not have one before beginning. They can ALL also have the same Sponsor/Godparent.
My dh and 15 yo are in RCIA, and yes, the people in charge of that are in the process of finding sponsors for both of them. We’re still in the Inquiry phase until after this Wednesday’s session. Rite of Acceptance is on 10-27.

My 12 yo isn’t in RCIA or RCIC (since she’s been baptized they said she didn’t need it) but does attend FEP (aka CCD) on Sunday mornings and according to the RCIA director that will be enough for her to be confirmed at Easter Vigil. She will start sitting in on RCIA with dh and her sister once they start having the sessions on Sundays, just because we’ll all be there anyway. They’re looking for a college student (campus parish) to sponsor my 15 yo, so I may ask if my 12 yo can “share.”

Thanks for the info! 🙂
 
My dh and 15 yo are in RCIA, and yes, the people in charge of that are in the process of finding sponsors for both of them. We’re still in the Inquiry phase until after this Wednesday’s session. Rite of Acceptance is on 10-27.

My 12 yo isn’t in RCIA or RCIC (since she’s been baptized they said she didn’t need it) but does attend FEP (aka CCD) on Sunday mornings and according to the RCIA director that will be enough for her to be confirmed at Easter Vigil. She will start sitting in on RCIA with dh and her sister once they start having the sessions on Sundays, just because we’ll all be there anyway. They’re looking for a college student (campus parish) to sponsor my 15 yo, so I may ask if my 12 yo can “share.”

Thanks for the info! 🙂
The 12 yo and 15 yo can have the same Sponsor if they want.

The 10 Yo should be Baptized, Confirmed and receive Holy Communion at the Easter vigil if everything is done properly, and will also need a Sponsor/Godparent.
 
Pixie, My dc shared the same Confirmation sponsor. It was a dear friend of the family. For the actual ceremony, I stood behind my ds as a proxy.
My dh and 15 yo are in RCIA, and yes, the people in charge of that are in the process of finding sponsors for both of them. We’re still in the Inquiry phase until after this Wednesday’s session. Rite of Acceptance is on 10-27.

My 12 yo isn’t in RCIA or RCIC (since she’s been baptized they said she didn’t need it) but does attend FEP (aka CCD) on Sunday mornings and according to the RCIA director that will be enough for her to be confirmed at Easter Vigil. She will start sitting in on RCIA with dh and her sister once they start having the sessions on Sundays, just because we’ll all be there anyway. They’re looking for a college student (campus parish) to sponsor my 15 yo, so I may ask if my 12 yo can “share.”

Thanks for the info! 🙂
 
Pixie, My dc shared the same Confirmation sponsor. It was a dear friend of the family. For the actual ceremony, I stood behind my ds as a proxy.
I’m thinking that I won’t be able to do that, because I’m going to BE a sponsor for someone else. :hmmm:
 
<<Thank you! The rest of us are already baptized Christians, (Baptist background) he’s the only one who isn’t yet baptized so I wasn’t totally sure what the procedure was. Baptists don’t require a godparent.>>

Pixiedust, were you and your family baptized with WATER in the Name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit?

Some places do not invoke the three Persons of the Trinity.

Others will baptize in the Name of Jesus Only.

You’d better clarify this.
 
<<Thank you! The rest of us are already baptized Christians, (Baptist background) he’s the only one who isn’t yet baptized so I wasn’t totally sure what the procedure was. Baptists don’t require a godparent.>>

Pixiedust, were you and your family baptized with WATER in the Name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit?
Yes! 👍
Some places do not invoke the three Persons of the Trinity.
Others will baptize in the Name of Jesus Only.
You’d better clarify this.
In a Baptist church, “Believer’s baptism” is practiced and the individual, after coming to a saving knowledge of Christ, decides when they want to be baptized. There is nothing in the Bible about sponsors or godparents so naturally, Baptists don’t have them. It’s certain Pentecostal groups that baptize in the name of Jesus only.
 
I’m thinking that I won’t be able to do that, because I’m going to BE a sponsor for someone else. :hmmm:
Nope you won’t. Maybe it would be best for them to have separate sponsors then. The way we stood would have made it difficult for anyone to have moved from one confirmandi to the next.
 
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