Baptism Question

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My wife and I are not Catholic. I am baptised protestant and my wife is not baptised. We have recently started to attend weekly mass at our local catholic church. We have two sons, one is 2 and the other is nearly 4. Neither are baptised. Can we get them baptised as catholic at the church?
 
Hmmmm… I’d say yes, but only if you or your wife go through RCIA and become Catholics. I don’t think the priests would be able to do it if you two insist on remaining out of the Church. However, the best person to ask is your local Catholic Priest.

The alternative is to baptize them yourself. Specifically the father who was already baptized. The mother can’t as she’s not baptized.
 
Welcome home… We’re glad to have you.
I hope you and your wife go through RCIA… Its a wonderful process.
In order to ask for baptism from the church for your children you must be in a position to raise your children as Catholics… therefore you must be baptised (at least) Catholic… and preferably confirmed.
 
Hmmmm… I’d say yes, but only if you or your wife go through RCIA and become Catholics. I don’t think the priests would be able to do it if you two insist on remaining out of the Church. However, the best person to ask is your local Catholic Priest.

The alternative is to baptize them yourself. Specifically the father who was already baptized. The mother can’t as she’s not baptized.
none of this is true, please disregard it.
 
My wife and I are not Catholic. I am baptised protestant and my wife is not baptised. We have recently started to attend weekly mass at our local catholic church. We have two sons, one is 2 and the other is nearly 4. Neither are baptised. Can we get them baptised as catholic at the church?
Welcome brother and sister in Christ. Go and speak to the pastor of the parish you attend and he will guide in the right direction. How do you like the Mass?
 
My wife and I are not Catholic. I am baptised protestant and my wife is not baptised. We have recently started to attend weekly mass at our local catholic church. We have two sons, one is 2 and the other is nearly 4. Neither are baptised. Can we get them baptised as catholic at the church?
I agree you should talk to the pastor at that Church.

In general, if you intend to raise your sons as Catholics, the priest would baptize them.

God Bless
 
I think it depends on the priest / diocese.
My husband was baptized catholic but he was not confirmed. I wasn’t baptized at all, hadn’t attended a church service of any religion until recently.
We had a baby last fall and we wanted to have him baptized. We talked to a priest and at this point I was not sure if I was going to join the church or not (I had no religion background at all). The priest said no problem, he would like me to join the church, but he wasn’t going to pressure me to do so, but he would still baptized our baby. He encouraged me to go to a couple of masses and just go from there.
Well, I really liked the reception we got and I felt really comfortable and decided to go through the RCIA classes. My husband is doing it also to get confirmed.
I think we got lucky with this priest though, I know some aren’t as laid back and would be more strict about it off the bat.
 
My wife and I are not Catholic. I am baptised protestant and my wife is not baptised. We have recently started to attend weekly mass at our local catholic church. We have two sons, one is 2 and the other is nearly 4. Neither are baptised. Can we get them baptised as catholic at the church?
Make an appointment with the pastor of the church you have been attending and ask this question. Yes, theoretically, the child of non-Catholic parents could be baptized but only with their permission, and only if they give reasonable assurance the child will be raised Catholic and educated in the faith. If one or both of you does decide to join RCIA (the process for adults becoming Catholic) that would presumably demonstrate your intention regarding the children, but it is not an absolute requirement for baptism. For instance, supposing a couple such as yourselves had a previous marriage and divorce in their background, and that delayed the start of RCIA, they could still have their children baptized while they were working on their own situation.

The first question the priest will probably ask is why you seek baptism for your children, since that question is asked during the rite “what do you ask of God’s Church for this child?” so that is the place to start in working through your reasons.

I hope you pursue this as you will find like so many families that bringing your children to the sacraments is a vehicle of grace for the whole family.

Under no circumstances should you attempt to baptize the child yourself unless he is in immediate danger of death, as such a practice is illicit. It is best for you to get some basic instruction in the Catholic faith before you bring your child to baptism so you understand the rights and obligations of Catholics, as well as our beliefs and practices. You have to make a profession of faith on behalf of your child during the rite (or the Catholic godparents do) so you need to at least understand the basic elements of that faith to do that intelligently.
 
The alternative is to baptize them yourself. Specifically the father who was already baptized. The mother can’t as she’s not baptized.
This is fresh in my mind from RCIA. This would only be advisable if one of the children were on their death bed and it was an emergency - it does not necessarily require a priest.
But of course you want to have it done in the church and be baptized into the church and get your kids started on the path to being confirmed and all that.
 
Thank you all for your replies. We are enjoying attending mass and feel wlecome by the other people. We have two catholic god parents lined up and it is our intention that both boys attend the local catholic school so I guesss this would mean, dependant on the priests acceptance, the boys can in theory at least receive baptism. I presume that regardless of whether they or we are baptised catholic we are welcome to attend mass provided we do not take communion? The church is so busy and there is always a large number of people wanting his time it is very hard to get time with the priest to ask him these questions directly!
 
I presume that regardless of whether they or we are baptised catholic we are welcome to attend mass provided we do not take communion? The church is so busy and there is always a large number of people wanting his time it is very hard to get time with the priest to ask him these questions directly!
absolutely you are welcome at Mass and other parish activities
yes, it is best to call the office during the week and make an appointment for a complex question like yours, as priests tend to get swamped after Sunday Masses.
 
Thank you all for your replies. We are enjoying attending mass and feel wlecome by the other people. We have two catholic god parents lined up and it is our intention that both boys attend the local catholic school so I guesss this would mean, dependant on the priests acceptance, the boys can in theory at least receive baptism. I presume that regardless of whether they or we are baptised catholic we are welcome to attend mass provided we do not take communion? The church is so busy and there is always a large number of people wanting his time it is very hard to get time with the priest to ask him these questions directly!
You are very welcomed. Quick question? What drew and your wife to the Catholic Church? Sorry, if I am invading your privacy.
 
The only church-going friends we have are all catholic and the local church and school are both catholic. we went along to see what it was like and we enjoyed it as do our children. we have been going almost weekly for the last 4 months or so.
 
The church is so busy and there is always a large number of people wanting his time it is very hard to get time with the priest to ask him these questions directly!
As others said, call the church during the week. Don’t worry about bothering him, it is what he is there for and I am sure will be more than happy to talk to you.

One of the Deacons at our church has been very helpful to us joining the church and gettting our son baptized. He also teaches our RCIA class.
Have you thought about RCIA ? I really didn’t think I would get into it, but am actually enjoying it…learning alot. I am sure that is something else the priest will talk to you about.
 
none of this is true, please disregard it.
Considering the children are 2 and 4 they would probably go through RCIC while the parents went through RCIA so what he said is true. The father could baptize them and it would be considered valid, however since the OP sounds like he wants to become Catholic he should wait to have the priest baptize them.
 
Considering the children are 2 and 4 they would probably go through RCIC while the parents went through RCIA so what he said is true. The father could baptize them and it would be considered valid, however since the OP sounds like he wants to become Catholic he should wait to have the priest baptize them.
RCIA for children applies to children over the age of reason, approximately 7 years old. Right now the children are regarded as infants for baptismal purposes and would be baptized based on their parents’ request and promise to raise the children Catholic, the same as a baby.
 
Perhaps one of you said a prayer for us…tonight, our priest called us on the phone and then came to visit us in our home. Our children are to be baptised at 1400 on Sunday this week. We are very happy.
 
Perhaps one of you said a prayer for us…tonight, our priest called us on the phone and then came to visit us in our home. Our children are to be baptised at 1400 on Sunday this week. We are very happy.
Congratulations! You are on the right path and may God Bless you on the spiritual journey. I’ll pray for your entire family.
 
Perhaps one of you said a prayer for us…tonight, our priest called us on the phone and then came to visit us in our home. Our children are to be baptised at 1400 on Sunday this week. We are very happy.
Great! It’s crazy how that works sometimes.
 
Perhaps one of you said a prayer for us…tonight, our priest called us on the phone and then came to visit us in our home. Our children are to be baptised at 1400 on Sunday this week. We are very happy.
God be praised. See how God works. He heard your concern and our prayers.

Well, since your kids will be attending Catholic school, they will receive their faith instruction at school, so no need to worry about their religious instruction.
 
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