Baptisms During the Mass

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I have a question. Can a priest refuse to do a Baptism DURING the Mass? I know that if I was a priest, then I would have no problems administering the Sacrament of Baptism either before the Mass or after the Mass, but with the exception of the Easter Vigil Mass, I would not want to do a Baptism DURING the Mass.
 
I have a question. Can a priest refuse to do a Baptism DURING the Mass? I know that if I was a priest, then I would have no problems administering the Sacrament of Baptism either before the Mass or after the Mass, but with the exception of the Easter Vigil Mass, I would not want to do a Baptism DURING the Mass.
The rubrics for Baptism allow for baptisms during Sunday Mass, but do not require it. It is praiseworthy to celebrate baptism (occasionally, but not often) during Sunday Mass – after all, it builds an understanding that the sacrament brings a person into a community (and not just creates a celebration for a particular family). Moreover, it gives the opportunity to preach on the sacrament.

However, (IMNSHO), overly-frequent baptism during Sunday Mass is counterproductive. It would lead either to baptisms without preaching on the sacrament (to the detriment to the family of the baptized person) or too-frequent preaching on the sacrament (to the detriment of preaching on the readings of the day).

So, yeah… a priest is not required to permit a request for a particular baptism on a Sunday. One hopes that he might have such a celebration occasionally, but he’s not required to do so.
 
My Father announces the event a week before and the day of. Before the homily, he invites people to stay after the Mass for the ceremony. 🙂
 
The preferred time at our parish is at Mass. These children are becoming part of the life of the church, and we all renew our baptismal promises at that time.
Baptism is not simply a family tradition. It’s a big event in the life of a parish. We support families.
 
I have a question. Can a priest refuse to do a Baptism DURING the Mass?
Of course, yes. There is no requirement that he must do a baptism during Mass.
I know that if I was a priest, then I would have no problems administering the Sacrament of Baptism either before the Mass or after the Mass, but with the exception of the Easter Vigil Mass, I would not want to do a Baptism DURING the Mass.
 
My parish always does baptisms during a weekend Mass. The parents are allowed to pick which Mass works best for them during the baptism preparation class.
 
3 Sundays during the month we have Baptisms during Mass, each Sunday at a different Mass, and then for one Sunday Baptisms are at 2pm. I love having the Baptisms during Mass.
 
My parish has them during mass and I love it! These are the future members of the church, why shouldn’t everyone be witness to their baptism?
 
I have a question. Can a priest refuse to do a Baptism DURING the Mass? I know that if I was a priest, then I would have no problems administering the Sacrament of Baptism either before the Mass or after the Mass, but with the exception of the Easter Vigil Mass, I would not want to do a Baptism DURING the Mass.
While I understand that having Baptism at Mass every week could become a problem, I do not understand why you would not want it at all.

Baptism is not a “private” thing. We are welcoming, in most cases, a child into the community. WE should not practice our faith in a vacuum, and when Baptisms are done, as a general rule, outside of Mass, I think we are forgetting the fact that we are Community.

In my diocese, funerals are out-pacing Baptisms by 3:1. I welcome a Baptism at Mass anytime, it shows that the parish is growing!! 🙂
 
On a practical level I think people would moan about the mass over running. I do think we should do more to encourage people to stay for baptisms though.
 
On a practical level I think people would moan about the mass over running. I do think we should do more to encourage people to stay for baptisms though.
We do it all the time, and the few minutes it takes is barely noticeable. The Creed is omitted when there is a Baptism, and that shortens things somewhat. Usually Father does the opening of the Baptismal rite at the back of the church before the procession, so that cuts some time too. And if there is a reason to be really conscious of a few minutes, the music director can choose shorter music. But this isn’t really necessary. I have never heard anyone complain, and since they vary Masses , if someone minds a few extra minutes, they can go to another Mass. Most people love to see the babies.
 
My parish only does baptism after mass, never during (with the exception of the Easter Vigil, I guess). The other parishes I’ve belonged to all did them during mass, my current parish is the only one that doesn’t do it this way. Not sure why.
 
The rubrics for Baptism allow for baptisms during Sunday Mass, but do not require it. It is praiseworthy to celebrate baptism (occasionally, but not often) during Sunday Mass – after all, it builds an understanding that the sacrament brings a person into a community (and not just creates a celebration for a particular family). Moreover, it gives the opportunity to preach on the sacrament.

However, (IMNSHO), overly-frequent baptism during Sunday Mass is counterproductive. It would lead either to baptisms without preaching on the sacrament (to the detriment to the family of the baptized person) or too-frequent preaching on the sacrament (to the detriment of preaching on the readings of the day).

So, yeah… a priest is not required to permit a request for a particular baptism on a Sunday. One hopes that he might have such a celebration occasionally, but he’s not required to do so.
I don’t mind a long Mass at all…but to have every Mass extended by baptism would probably cause me to seek Mass elsewhere. Mass is about the Eucharist.
 
The preferred time at our parish is at Mass. These children are becoming part of the life of the church, and we all renew our baptismal promises at that time.
Baptism is not simply a family tradition. It’s a big event in the life of a parish. We support families.
The Mass is about the Eucharist. To have baptism at every Sunday Mass suddenly puts the focus on the baptism. Not to mention those that are there for picture taking that probably won’t be there again til Christmas or Easter. And that seems part and parcel of many baptisms.

It makes the Mass longer for something that would as effectively done outside of Mass. Sorry.
 
It makes the Mass longer for something that would as effectively done outside of Mass. Sorry.
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ThundersnowIV:
to have every Mass extended by baptism would probably cause me to seek Mass elsewhere
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On a practical level I think people would moan about the mass over running.
Why does everyone presume that having a baptism during Mass will take more time? A carefully-enough planned homily, and the (prescribed) omission of the Creed means that you can easily enough have a baptism and yet not run longer than a regular Sunday Mass!
 
I don’t mind a long Mass at all…but to have every Mass extended by baptism would probably cause me to seek Mass elsewhere. Mass is about the Eucharist.
I don’t know of any parish that does Baptisms at every Mass. They usually are scheduled for one Mass a week, and some weeks there aren’t any. Our parish has 3200 families, and we don’t have them every week. One week they will be at 9am Mass, another at 1045 Mass, another week at 1230 Mass, and one week at 2PM. Other parishes may designate a certain Mass at which they do Baptisms. Last month I didn’t attend one Mass, except for the Easter Vigil, which had a Baptism. Your concerns are unfounded, most parishes are not as big as ours and don’t have that many Baptisms.
 
Why does everyone presume that having a baptism during Mass will take more time? A carefully-enough planned homily and the (prescribed) omission of the Creed means that you can easily enough have a baptism and yet not run longer than a regular Sunday Mass!
This is true. I stand corrected on that on. But your stipulations are not always included…particularly the homily.

Again…I’ve seen baptisms during Mass. Sometimes I don’t appreciate them. They seem frequently to be a show for people who probably won’t be there for a long time. Makes me wonder how they were allowed to be godparents.
 
I don’t know of any parish that does Baptisms at every Mass. They usually are scheduled for one Mass a week, and some weeks there aren’t any. Our parish has 3200 families, and we don’t have them every week. One week they will be at 9am Mass, another at 1045 Mass, another week at 1230 Mass, and one week at 2PM. Other parishes may designate a certain Mass at which they do Baptisms. Last month I didn’t attend one Mass, except for the Easter Vigil, which had a Baptism. Your concerns are unfounded, most parishes are not as big as ours and don’t have that many Baptisms.
I don’t have any concerns…aside from the baptism is usually a side show (and I am not being critical of the sacrament at all) that is attended by people who may well not be there again. I’ve seen that more often than not.

The whole cause of the Mass is to worship the Father through the Son and to receive the Eucharist. The Eucharist is the center of the Mass. Not baptism. 🙂
 
While I understand that having Baptism at Mass every week could become a problem, I do not understand why you would not want it at all.

Baptism is not a “private” thing. We are welcoming, in most cases, a child into the community. WE should not practice our faith in a vacuum, and when Baptisms are done, as a general rule, outside of Mass, I think we are forgetting the fact that we are Community.

In my diocese, funerals are out-pacing Baptisms by 3:1. I welcome a Baptism at Mass anytime, it shows that the parish is growing!! 🙂
Perhaps it shows the parish is growing. Perhaps it is just a mindless requirement for many.
 
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