Bro. Rich. My cousin had a child that died in childbirth back in the late 60s. Back then father’s were kept in a waiting room. They called him and notified him. The priest chaplain of the hospital had already gone home. He baptized his child then and there (he, like I went to a Catholic high school and knew what to do). First question: I have been taught since childhood that since we are all part of the priesthood of believers, in an emergency situation, we could baptize. In the aftermath of loosing a child, I can be fairly certain that it would not have occurred to him to report the baptism to his parish. Does this invalidate the baptism?
Second question. My wife miscarried at two months and four months (2 children). Needless to say they kept me out of the picture entirely (and BTW there is a young father suffering tonight on these threads from the loss of a child). What takes precedence here? Canon law or the grief and desire of the parent(s)?
Hrolf