Good advice on seeing a priest and joining RCIA. Yes, I know some of the programs are not that good but that’s what we have these fora for. . .moral support!
Actually, the thing is, Catholicism is such an ancient, rich, and deep faith that it is light years away from what most people (even some Catholics

) think of when they think of their ‘faith community’.
Today many people seek to do the ‘least’. Not, I hasten to add, necessarily out of laziness. . .but often because in today’s sound byte, ‘have it your way’, ‘rugged individualist’ world, they’re looking for ‘slogan Christianity’. They’re looking for a list of “thou shalts” (just like the rich young man who kept all the commandments). Mind you, the rich young man knew that just doing ‘the basics’ wasn’t enough. (often ‘slogan Christians’ find themselves wanting more in time). But because they’re used to the basics–used to thinking of themselves as being ‘the good enough Christian’. . .anything that goes out of the ‘comfort zone’ is pretty quickly rejected.
Catholicism is
way out of the comfort zone. It’s not ‘slogan Christianity.’ It’s hard. . .it’s complicated, it’s old, it often seems paradoxical, and in a group of three ‘zealous’ Catholics you’re bound to find at least 4 different points of view, all of them claiming to be if not the only, the best one. . . And while none of those points may be ‘wrong’, it may be quite difficult to discern the true ‘right’. . .but of course, a thing’s being ‘difficult’ doesn’t mean that it shouldn’t be tried!
I also recommend getting a Catechism of the Catholic Church. (You can Google this on-line, or find a used copy on
Amazon.com etc.) Take your time and work through it. (Then pat yourself on the back because you’ve done more than about 80% of today’s Catholics right now. . .and hopefully, your example will get that 80% to read it too!) And of course your Bible will be helpful because the Catechism will often make reference to particular Scriptural passages as it explains Catholic teaching on them.
God bless you!