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awantz
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I would have to say that they were.
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PJM
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Evelyn, welcome to Catholic Forum:thumbsup:
When you say you shall soon become Catholic, are you implying that you have been through RCIA or some similar course of instruction? If not, you should know that there is a necessary process for entry into the Catholic Church, and while you are wecome at Mass, until you have received instructions you should not particiapte in Holy Communion.
It is far different, vastly GREATER in the Catholic Church than anywhere else.
It is a prudent and I think necessary step for entry into thee Church. The reason being you will be expected to accept, live and put into practice 2,000 years of doctrine, dogma, teaching and belief. Neither God nor the RCC would ask such a commitment, were one not fully aware of the expetiations of membership.
We are delighted you have decided to join us.
As to how to dress. Clean, modest and comfortable clothing is ideal. I would suggest you sit towards the rear of the Church for your first times at Mass to you can see what others are doing and kind of get the hang of it.
Confession is One of the Seven Sacraments. One’s first Confession in some way’s is easier than subsequent ones can be. It normally it takes place as a conversation. The priest [who needs to be aware of you’re situation and first Confession] will talk you through the process which is quite simple.
It is important that you understand just what sin is, that there are two degress; lesser that we term “Venial” sin, and greater which are termed “Mortal” sin. [Jn. 20:21-23, 1 Jn. 5:16-19] Information like this SHOULD be a aprt of you’re instruction before commiting.
We wish you love, and peace and joy, and wecome you and you’re family to the Only Faith founded by Jesus Christ.
Love and prayers,
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Mistyjazz
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Hi Everyone, I just finished my first meeting in RCIA. There were only two of us going through this detailed process held at the fathers house. In amongst a room full of cateuches I was asked to introduce myself and my reason for attending…
I can’t believe that I broke down in tears with emotion flooding back to me when I referenced my close relationship with god after helping my husband battle cancer twice… even more so that his scan results will come up again next week, and it has been 5 years ago when it all began. Since then he has been clear. I really had no control over my body as all my memories related to that battle came back to me…It was aweful…The whole room went silent as I worked myself back to a descent state to talk…
I am still in shock at myself and I think all the others in the room were quite taken back by the amount of emotion that came out!!! Although they were all loving, being put under the spotlight for me came as comfronting…I am a quiet person and I must say it was so nerveracking and hard…I just hope that next week will be a little easier for me…as being only 1 of two woman going thru this process it is very hands on…
Has anyone ever felt like that…I realize we all have our past issues but I kind of feel really embarrassed now after what I experienced…I hope that next week things will ease off a bit and I blend in a bit better…Heres hoping!!!
It would be wonderful to hear other peoples experiences as I feel like I am doing this all alone…Thanks
I can’t believe that I broke down in tears with emotion flooding back to me when I referenced my close relationship with god after helping my husband battle cancer twice… even more so that his scan results will come up again next week, and it has been 5 years ago when it all began. Since then he has been clear. I really had no control over my body as all my memories related to that battle came back to me…It was aweful…The whole room went silent as I worked myself back to a descent state to talk…
I am still in shock at myself and I think all the others in the room were quite taken back by the amount of emotion that came out!!! Although they were all loving, being put under the spotlight for me came as comfronting…I am a quiet person and I must say it was so nerveracking and hard…I just hope that next week will be a little easier for me…as being only 1 of two woman going thru this process it is very hands on…
Has anyone ever felt like that…I realize we all have our past issues but I kind of feel really embarrassed now after what I experienced…I hope that next week things will ease off a bit and I blend in a bit better…Heres hoping!!!
It would be wonderful to hear other peoples experiences as I feel like I am doing this all alone…Thanks
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PJM
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***Not to worry
I have seen this happen in each of my three years teaching RCIA.
Preparing for a personal encounter with one’s God, the closest one can get on planet earth, in Catholic Holy Communion can be nerve racking. But it’s worth it
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Lief_Erikson
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Welcome to the Church! Welcome, welcome!
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Angel_Face
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There is nothing like being “CATHOLIC”!!!
With best wishes and special prayers,
Angel Face :angel1:
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Disciple96
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First of all, welcome to the Catholic Church! We’re happy you and your family took the plunge.
Second, will you pray for me? And send me a relic? Do you Facebook? I’d love to have a Saint post something on my wall.
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Garland
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Wisegal, Welcome, I am a convert of 40 years and it feels like it was only yesterday. It is and has been the most joyful journey of my life. On dress code I was taught by a sainted mother to all ways wear the best I had to visit God. We were poor as I grewup but the best was always clean and and I was well groomed. Hair cut nails clean etc. It was a protestant church much like the amish and I was always welcomed. I found the same to be true in the catholic church. I wear my best and make sure I am well groomrd, and have always been welcomed. A few good books to help you would be Patrick Madrid
s Suprized by Truth #1 & #2. Scott Hahn and his wife also good authors. EWTN on dish network is also a great resourse. Steve Ray, Alex Jones, are also good. There are many others,converts, who have written their stories and are helpful. Marcus Grodi, Journys Home, EWTN, is excellent. On recieving the Sacrements, you dont consumate the marriage until the vows are said. God Bless you and your family as you journey to the truth of Christ in his One Holy Catholic Apostolic Church. His will be done Garland
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toadessa
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I’m also new to the church, due to be baptized next Easter. But I’ve been going to mass for awhile and I think it’s ok to wear anything that’s clean and modest. It doesn’t have to be super dressy, but at least as nice as what you would wear to an office job. Err on the side of dressing nicer if you’re not sure. Jeans and bare shoulders are my clothing pet peeves. Sometimes it seems like I’m the only female under 30 who isn’t showing a lot of skin in church, which is just totally inappropriate if you ask me. And definitely don’t do what one man in my parish does - go jogging right before church and show up in sweaty workout clothes!
Regarding past sins, even though I can’t go to confession yet, I’ve found the examination of conscience to be very useful. You can go through it and say the Act of Contrition by yourself, anytime you think you’ve sinned. There may be more than one version but here’s an example of an examination of conscience: scborromeo.org/confess.htm
Regarding past sins, even though I can’t go to confession yet, I’ve found the examination of conscience to be very useful. You can go through it and say the Act of Contrition by yourself, anytime you think you’ve sinned. There may be more than one version but here’s an example of an examination of conscience: scborromeo.org/confess.htm
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Disciple96
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Welcome nearly home, toadessa!
I’m glad you found your way to the Church and it sounds to me like you really are well on your way to being a good, solid, faithful Catholic. YAY! Woohoo! 
The examination of conscience is a wonderful practice. And let me tell ya, confession is one of my favorite things in the world. There is nothing like the relief and joy I feel after hearing those wonderful words full of healing and love: I absolve you… I am almost always in tears by that time, tears of contrition and a deep and heartfelt gladness, gratefulness and joy.
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arcee
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Welcome to the Catholic Church. First of all I will include you and your family in my prayers so that God will guide you in your spiritual journey.
At times it is overwhelming to understand and know everything about the Catholic Faith. Be patient and you made the first step. Joining the RCIA program in your parish will definitely help you in your faith journey. The book, “Rome Sweet Rome” by Scott and Kimberly Hahn is a good resource about conversion too if you can read it.
At times it is overwhelming to understand and know everything about the Catholic Faith. Be patient and you made the first step. Joining the RCIA program in your parish will definitely help you in your faith journey. The book, “Rome Sweet Rome” by Scott and Kimberly Hahn is a good resource about conversion too if you can read it.
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Disciple96
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Forgot to mention, toadessa, that I’ve added a page of resources to my blog. You may have already found some of the stuff on it, but maybe there will be something worth your while listed there. And please feel free to comment on the page to let me know of anything you think I should add.
Just a thought. I’m sure you’ve been reading and studying for a while, so feel free to completely ignore me if you like.
Just a thought. I’m sure you’ve been reading and studying for a while, so feel free to completely ignore me if you like.
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toadessa
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Thanks, Disciple96! That’s a great source of information!
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Disciple96
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You’re welcome! I got a little carried away, huh?
And I’m not finished with it, I wanna add more stuff when I can. I guess you can take the gal outta the Catholic bookstore, but you can’t take the Catholic bookstore outta the gal. Not this gal, anyways. - Status