Due to the way you phrased it, I perceived it as ridicule. I now understand that was not your intention.
What would you suggest the OP do to keep her friend in the Catholic Church?
Pray for your friend and love your friend.
Neither encourage or discourage them to leave. Impart upon them the importance of discernment. Tell them to talk to their Latin priest, and read some of the lives of your saints. Be attentive at your Masses. Really dive into the Liturgy. If they are still feeling uncomfortable and stubborn, encourage them to perhaps attend a Divine Liturgy at an Orthodox Church…Pray and Discern.
One should become Orthodox for the right reasons. If it is just a general dissatisfaction that will become apparent quickly enough. Many people come to Orthodoxy seeing us as some sort of refuge from “Modernism” but that isn’t a good reason, and it will make for a bad time.
All the while, be that person’s friend and love them.
Did I mention be that person’s friend and love them?
I admit I can be prickly on this forum, and have gotten polemical at times myself. That is because I can relish a debate like anyone else and my gusto can get the better of my sense (combined with a little snark)
I bear no ill will towards the Latin Church, and it wasn’t some radical traditionalist mentality that caused me to leave (which would quickly cause a flame out and perhaps out and out Apostasy)
I didn’t discern properly when I converted to Catholicism all those years ago. I took all the Polemics on this website and others at face value, and didn’t seriously consider the Orthodox claims. I found the triumphalism of GK Chesterton and his circle to be seductive (he is still a great writer). I became a Catholic, convinced that I had found the Ancient Church. Not long after the chrism dried I began to feel unsettled…but I convinced myself that it was just Satan, and decided to throw myself into everything: Knights of Columbus, Confraternities, Rosary circles, etc etc. I started running away from the doubts and questions that I should have addressed.
Well, it eventually came to a head because I was a miserable person. Going to Confession twice a week for a Sin I had no way to vocalize, had no idea about and didn’t want to know.
One day I just decided that I would reevaluate everything, like many of us “who leave.” This time, I gave Orthodoxy the hearing I should have…and I am where I am today.
I finally realized that I couldn’t leave you guys behind, because I was never one of you to begin with…not really. It is that realization that provided the clean break for me, and so it may be with others.
I post this not to encourage or discourage anyone to leave, but to carefully discern where you are. I am Orthodox. I never was a Latin, not truly.