Good morning, Mike. Thanks for your thoughtful contribution to this thread.
Hello,
In the case of children, and in the context of evolution by natural selection, they are safer and will live longer if they obey their adult caregivers. Pathologies aside, children are hard-wired to believe adults.
Modern parenting takes advantage (it could be said) of this evolutionary trust and uses it, in this case, to propel the myth of elves and Naughty Lists ostensibly to effect not only obedience, but also to stoke traditional culture which happily binds the family and society together. I’m not necessarily against stoking a child’s imagination but I can absolutely see how the Santa Claus myth can be a gateway drug to deities.
“Gateway drug to deities!”

Too funny!
As a Catholic parent, I have worked very hard to draw distinctions between belief in Santa and belief in God. I know several Catholic families that do not allow the Santa story to be part of their children’s Christmas experience in order to avoid gift emphasis and Santa/God confusion, among other things.
We have Santa as a part of Christmas in my family. My son is in second grade, so he still believes in Santa. But in our family Santa does not punish, does not see everything we do (or don’t do), and he only brings one little gift and a few trinkets in a stocking. See, as a Christian, Santa is not the end-all and be-all of Christmas, so we (my family) don’t need all the hype, all the control tactics.
Of course, other Catholic families may choose a different tack, but we’re pretty typical among our friends with the treatment of the Santa story.
And we also put a pretty heavy focus on St. Nicholas on Dec. 6 – day of surprises and service.
So why don’t kids outgrow Yahweh? Well some do. But it’s likely because, unlike Santa Claus, adults (and of course families), maintain the collective belief in the relevant God of the culture, in this case, Yahweh, right to the casket. There are heavy penalties for not believing what people of faith teach: ostracization for one, eternal pain for another.
Cheers!
Mike
Well, I’m not sure about the validity of using cultural pressure as the source of people’s faith. It doesn’t really account for converts and “reverts” who are not supported through their culture of family and friends. You could argue that they trade family/friend culture for a new church culture, but even that does not account for the intense suffering some people endure in order to follow their faith (by participating in any religion).
Switch participation in Christianity for participation in New Age beliefs like manifesting what you desire, or participation, if you will, in atheism. If the driving force for our religious choices is cultural acceptance, why do some people go against family and leave their “traditional” religions?
As for the fear of eternal pain, it has been my experience that most people who have that fear are not the strongest in the practice of their faith. Rather, the people who are most fervent in the practice of their faith are those who are most hopeful for eternal joy. Again, this would be my circle of friends – just one circle of the 7 billion available.
Again, thanks for your post.
Gertie