OK, it seems that the first information was correct after all. The person who passed on the second set of info, I come to find out is, how do I put this charitably?..let’s say a brick short. To make a long story short, the info above turns out to be correct. The majority of the meetings are indeed in Spanish. The anglos can speak it. As I said above, I can not.
I praise God for allowing me to go through all this. I think it has strengthened me.
I have decided (as I mentioned before) to attend the Oblate meeting this Sunday.
This is obviously where the Lord wants me.
It’s a bit funny, really. This thread has heard some interesting stories. Jason from Dominican to Benedictine. David from sure of a third order calling, to Opus Dei. Me, from Franciscan to Benedictine (with interludes

).
To all of which I say: thanks be to God.